im pregnat and i do not no what to do?

Question

my ex boy friend is hurting me what should i do

Answer 1

Call the domestic violence hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) and go to a safe place. T

The hotline can put you in touch with a safe house for women. Then build yourself a new violence-free life. You and your baby deserve a good life.

If you stay with him, he will only become more violent, and you and the baby could get seriously hurt.

http://www.ndvh.org

Answer 2

You should probably explain what you mean by hurting you, is it physical or emotional?

Regardless, now that you are pregnant you should realize that your body houses a young life, and you have to take care of it. Stress in your life can have negative effects on your body and your baby, so you want to eliminate as much of it as you can. I'd say try and work out a relationship and plan to take care of the baby between you and the baby's father. If you can't do that on your own, get some help from a counselor or minister or someone.

Remember, you're going to be a mommy soon, and you want to be the best mommy you can be, so no need to carry dead weight. And don't be afraid to let him leave if he's causing more problems than he's worth. There are plenty of places that can help you get out if he's abusive, and help you start a new life w/you and your baby. Good luck!

Answer 3

Go to the Police IMMEDIATELY. Seek help for social agencies as well. There are all sorts of assistance to woman and mothers being hurt by men.
AVOID HIM
do not feel sorry for him or drop any charges that may be placed against him.
Be prepared for him to be really upset and try to lash out at you once you have spoken to authorities. Follow through, protect yourself and the baby at all costs.
Find a safe and secure location.

Answer 4

As in HITTING you? You should either call the police or pick up a blunt object and crack him over the head with it...and then call the police. I guarantee that bastard won't hit you again. Oh and I really suggest telling someone NOW. Like your parents...or a sibling or a close friend who can help you through this. This is dangerous for you and your baby.

Answer 5

Grab the yellow pages while he's not around and call around to woman's shelters to see if any of them have available beds. Most places also offer healthcare and counseling. When you find one that has an opening, go there asap. Do not tell him what you are gonna do, just do it.

Keep strong - you can make it, it's just gonna be hard work.

Answer 6

First you should go see a doctor and see how far along you are, start taking prenatal vitamins. I f your boyfrien is physicall abusing you then you should stop seeing him, even if you have to get a restrainig order, cant let him hurt your unborn. If hes hurting your feelings dont worry, women are stronger than men and he'll eventually turn around.

Answer 7

Well, if he's your EX bf, he needs to stay away from you. He's not with you anymore, so he needs to grow up and move on. Is he hurting you physically, emotionally, sexually? You need to be more specific.

Whatever the situation, you can always get a restraining order against him.

Answer 8

call the police! This could get ugly if it gets out of hand. Your boyfriend is a very bad guy...My mom thaught me to never hurt a woman either physically nor sentimentally.

Answer 9

Let me get this straight- you're pregnant, your ex boyfriend is hurting (raping?) you, and you don't know what to do? Get help! See a doctor, and call the police, of course.

Answer 10

You should find an adult you trust, like your mom or a teacher or relative. TELL Them what's going on. There are places like planned parenthood and public health that can help you too.

Don't be scared. These places are there to help you.