2007-03-08 09:05:02 · 15 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that after all these years, we do - in a sense - take each other "for granted."
By that, I mean we have come to count on, depend on a certain amount of reliability and pleasure from one another. We remember to be thankful and we compliment one another, but we definitely are used to having things good.
2007-03-08 10:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, He takes me for granted I do everything for him and never once have i gotten a thank you You see if he would be more grateful I would be too I was at the beginning of the relationship but that all stop when i notice he would take me for granted
2007-03-08 09:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I take for granted that he is going to get up and go to work, he takes for granted that I will do the same. I take for granted that he will be home afterwards, and he takes me for the same. I take for granted that he doesn't do things that are outside of our trust of one another. He takes for granted that I don't either. I take for granted that when there is the one person who will be there for me, it is him and he takes me for granted the same.
I thanked him yesterday for taking out the trash. He thanked me for making his deposit at the bank and paying the bills. He kissed me this morning and told me to have a good day. I told him I was proud of him for the way he handled a hairy situation. He thanked me for picking up his daughter. I hugged him and told him that he smelled good, even after working outside all day. He tells me I'm was sexy. I tell him how good he looks in his new shirt that matches his eyes.
Yes, we take some things for granted, but appreciate each other a whole lot more.
2007-03-08 09:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Denise D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No & no. I've learned from past bad experiences not to take people for granted.
2007-03-08 09:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone uses everyone, now it depends on whether its negativly or in a positive way. Momma always said we came in this world alone and we will leave it alone but the quality of life ends and begins with what you take and give to the world through the people you encounter!
2007-03-08 10:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by WOW U all make me feel normal! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes yes. It works both ways. You have to try and stay sharp especially for those of us who have been married a while. When you notice you are doing that, you have to stop and find a way to make it up to your spouse.
2007-03-08 09:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you get real comfortable in a marriage you are inclined to be like that & its not good because some people act differently & feel like they are not loved & thats when problems can set in
so when i realise I have been doing that I try to make up & show my appreciation more
2007-03-08 13:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband ALWAYS takes me for granted....I can't say I don't do it to him....but I am at least aware of it and try to control it...but what can you do....sometimes its not worth the headache to bring it up
2007-03-08 09:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sinking Slowly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES MY SPOUSE TAKES ME FOR GRANTED ALOT
2007-03-08 09:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirl_up76825 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he absoultely takes me for granted. I've been patient all along, but believe me, sometimes it's hard to avoid thinking about cheating.
2007-03-08 09:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by aletheok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋