PLEASE! help this is really important, with my messenger I wanted to send to my friend something about another person and then I sent it to the person that I was talking about
And I wrote something a bit weird about the other person
WHAT DO I DO???!!!!!!
2007-03-08 09:03:55 · 5 answers · asked by kuklitsa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I did the exact same thing once..........
It felt like my heart just dropped. I felt AWFUL.
It wasn't what I said. It wasn't mean. It's that I was sad about the way they were treating me.
What I did was that I just played it off as a joke... like I MEANT to message that person... that I was just trying to be funny.
It worked.
2007-03-08 09:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh...lol. This reminds me of something I did last year. I was really angry at my friend, and I was meaning to tell one of my other friends about it. On my messenger list, the friend I was angry at was RIGHT underneath the one I wanted to send it to.
Without noticing, I clicked on her name, and started typing this long story about how angry I was...and I even said that she was being immature. I didn't even realize my mistake until I had seen that she signed on. I was panicking, let's just say.
She chewed me out for a while, but I told her the truth. I told her that I didn't mean to say that to her, but I'm sorry that I was even going to say it in the first place. I told her that I wanted to work things out, that I was just angry and upset when I sent it. She agreed, and we both apologized.
The moral of the story is to not talk about people to others. Even if you don't make the mistake of sending it to the wrong person, it may get around to them. I know you were probably upset and had to tell someone how you felt. I understand, but think twice next time...lol. Things happen!
Also, being honest with people is the best policy ever. Sometimes, it's best to fib (just a little white lie), but most of the time, it's best to be honest. Example: Someone asks you if you like their dress, and you don't, but you say you do. That's not bad.
I hope this helped. Good luck!
2007-03-08 17:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit your mistake. People are smart, so there's no 2 ways about it. 9 times out of 10, the offended person will forgive you for your brutal honesty and your willingness to expose yourself. That's how great friendships are built, by being truthful and not by hiding stuff.
2007-03-08 17:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bharat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn a lesson by what you did - don't talk about people behind their backs - sometimes, they get to hear about it - and, in this case, you told her yourself. it's time for an apology. if you meant these words you were saying about this person - you should be telling that person not your friends. how would you feel if people started saying weird things about you - don't think you would like it. so, again, to answer your question learn a lesson by your mistake.
2007-03-08 17:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that very thing myself. It is totally embarrassing. All you can do is apologize profusely and ask if there is any way you can make it up to her. And this should teach you as it did me to double check the address before sending out an email.
2007-03-08 17:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by cowabunga mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋