I just don't understand why I'm single. Many of my friends have boyfriends but I'm better than some of them but they have boyfriends before me. I'm funny, smart, I'm atheletic(tennis and basketball and volleyball and swimming) love absolutely love sports and making friends but no guy wants me as their girlfriend and I want to know why. Is it because I'm sensitive or sometimes act very ambitionous. I need advice. I want a guy in my life. Don't wish to be single anymore. Help please.
2007-03-08 08:35:10 · 44 answers · asked by riri4u 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that guy iz jus not there yet. dnt rush things. u will have the perfect guy one day dnt wry. itz not that no1 likes u u jus havnt found mr. right
2007-03-08 08:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See basically it just need to click between you and other person.
It can be because of the outlook you have or because you look reserved.
It is not necessary that if you are beautiful you will have boyfriend.
Sometime exactly opposite happens people think that you are so atheletic, energetic & beautiful that you must have a boyfriend.So they dont even try.
Even i dont have a girlfriend but that doesnt mean i m low in anything. It just that we havent met the right one at right time.
Be Positive & good Luck
Thanks
Jeetu
2007-03-08 16:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by CoolestnHotest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea how old you are, but I assume you are very young. Some girls start dating very young, some girls are not. Some girls have a lot of boyfriends before she finally settles down (or don't settle down at all), while other girls marry their first boyfriend. If you want a boyfriend to show off to your friends, fill your Friday and Saturday night schedule, forget about that. Numbers (of boyfriends in your life) are never important. Simply wait for someone who is caring and loves you and only you. He surely exists. But now is probably not the time yet. Trust me, it worths waiting. Slow things down, and keep your own pace. Good luck.
2007-03-08 16:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sweety ! I see that u r really very talented. U look good. U have a good reputation in sports. let me tell u.. these r ur +ve qualities. Now I'll tell u the secret to attract someone. If u r out with ur friends, or in a party...
1) dress elegantly
2) be a silent observer
3) Never talk too much of ur intrest in sports
4) Just throw bits n clues about ur achivement
Boys r more eager to find out n learn what is there in u by themselves. Give it a shot...
Good luck :-)
2007-03-08 10:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You my friend are what sounds like a special women. And I know you are lonely now. But when that right guy comes along it will be well worth the wait. leave it in Gods hands he knows you will not be satisfied with just any one. he knows you need a man you can keep forever and the man you are looking for is out there. you will find him be patient and do not settle for some one who will not trully make you happy. God is taking care of you and he will bring this man into your life. when you are most ready to recieve him. Good luck
2007-03-08 08:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of guy you want. I m single too. The same problem which you have. Simple, intelligent and caring. But I have never tried for gals. that could be a reason. Would you like to be my friend first. If yes, give an email.
2007-03-08 21:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by amit25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey... I'm there for you...
Don't take it other ways, I just wanna asure you that no one's alone. Your kind of guy would definitely come into your life some day or other. Have patience. Impatience for company may lead you into making wrong decisions.
And if you need someone real bad, jsut ask your parents to search for a mate...
What the hell is wrong with you? Being with a guy doesn't define your identity. Maybe your guy would be one off a kind, real gem. And as you know gems are hard to find.
In case you just wanna ward off your loneliness, you can mail me through yahoo answers.
God bless you...
:-)
2007-03-08 09:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its the fact that you like sport sto m uch, maybe that's making guys think that you are more on the athletic side rather than the feminin side!! If you want a guy, try starting out as friends and then work your way on becoming his girlfriend!! Use jokes, and try to impress at first, but don't forget to be yourself!
2007-03-08 08:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one out and practice on him.
Ask some guy over to your place, or out for a bite, or get a group of people together for a dinner out. People go for free food, even if they don't like everyone in the group.
Wear nice clothes, not slutty ones, but not librarian stuffy.
Be yourself, someone will find you attractive.
2007-03-08 08:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Big Bruce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you stop worrying about finding a boyfriend you will. When you are ok with being single a man will come into your life. Wait and see.
2007-03-08 08:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by Kit Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just perfect and you will definitely have some one when the time comes. Be yourself, If you observe properly most of your friends have boyfriend only for the sake of having one and believe me most of them are losers! And iam sure a girl like you doesn't deserve a loser.
2007-03-08 22:09:03 · answer #11 · answered by jammy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋