if a girl learns negetively about sex, whether religion or family moral....does it effect her future sex life...is it that easy to erase a lifetime of learning just when you think your ready? teenage sex may be good but twentys sex should be even better....fact is woman dont have a refractory period....does this guilt effect them from having multiple orgasms which is very possible.
2007-03-08 08:28:40 · 8 answers · asked by Fresca 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No. What's so negative about teaching a girl not to be a worn out harlot by the time she's ready to marry?
2007-03-08 08:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lord Vader 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, I was taught not to have sex. And I was really uptight about my sexuality until I learned that sexuality is a good thing. I think the bad thing is when women (or anyone, really) is taught that being sexual in any form or fashion is bad or wrong. Because being sexual is not all about sex--it's also about feeling comfortable with your body and knowing what turns you on, etc. Once I went through that process, multiple orgasms came naturally--when before that, I couldn't have any, period.
2007-03-08 16:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by kacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just girls. Everybody.
At the age of 12 or so, you literally get a new brain. Neurotransmitters you've never been exposed to start to be manufactured at explosive rates and set up shop everywhere in your Mind and Body.
You get NEW ORGANS, both cognitive and physical. Then you're told that you can't use them for 8 more years?!
This is like scolding a toddler for trying to crawl and telling them they will be 'ready' when they are 10 and 'understand walking better.'
2007-03-08 16:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by Fastman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what the girls (and guys for that matter) are being taught about sex. If they're being taught that it's dirty and completely wrong or if they're taught through silence and avoidance to that issue, then it probably will affect their sexual lives later on.
However, if they're taught by people they love and trust that sex is natural, and that there's a right time and place for it, then they'll have a better outlook on it. They should still be taught that sex is not to be done casually, because that also teaches them to cheapen the experience and not understand how intimate and powerful (positively and negatively) it can be.
2007-03-08 16:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by kevness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abstinence only programs DO NOT WORK. I've said it before and I will say it again. It is misleading to young men and women, and it doesn't teach them what precautions they need to take if they do decide to be active.
2007-03-08 16:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by snorkweezl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree stop telling them to say NO..I need to hear YES more often...nothing like multiple orgasms with full blown gentital warts from being a whore!!
2007-03-08 16:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by lobster 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, I kind of agree with you. I think schools are making girls and boys scared to have sex to.All they talk about is if you have sex no matter what your gonna get STD's or get pregnant.
2007-03-08 16:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true it's part of their plans to stop "overpopulation",in other words they want weak genes to be destroyed so they can have a "master" race.
2007-03-08 16:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mant98 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋