Whats on his mind?

Question

I fell in love with a guy, many years ago.It was the same for both of us, for the first time in our thirties. With bad timing we never ended up together. He was with someone, and took too long to make a decision, by which time, I was involved elsewhere.When I was free again he was still with the same pwerson he was going to leave for nme before. But desperate to be a father, he got himself a responsiblity. And remains in what he refers to as an unhappy relationship. But stays for the sake of the kid.Although living in hundreds of miles apart now we still meet up every so often. We normally don't communicate much inside this period. But now that i have met someone else he has started to send me more intense love letters.But when I suggest meeting him, all has gone silent. What is his game?

Answer 1

He loves you and wants you, but he also takes his committments serious. It seems to me he is confused and hoping to keep both of you because he doesn't know what else to do. I would continue to be his friend, but move on to find a romantic/potential marriage partner right away. Think about yourself and what would be best for you in the long run.

Since you obviously love him, it would be okay to tell him your plans to move on. Leave it at that. You are obviously a beautiful woman if he's considering leaving his wife and child for you.