Marriages fail its a part of life sometimes we marrysomebody who isn't who we need to be with. We made it through the deception part of our relationship but is it inevitable that he's gonna cheat on me cause he cheated on her?
2007-03-08 08:04:51 · 13 answers · asked by ladydream67 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What goes around... comes around. Yes, he will cheat on you.
2007-03-08 08:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the reality is that marriage in itself is an particularly massive dedication made by technique of two those with severe threat and promises. i could assume the ladies those who are not chuffed weren't continuously even as they FIRST were given married because if that became so --- then why get married. So in truth it truly is more suitable or a lot less a lengthy procedure for females individuals and how they stay existence. I doubt that the questioning all women individuals are stressful naggy etc/etc/ could particularly come into impact in a pragmatic marriage yet there continuously looks something that brings someone down. it may look a touch pathetic at modern-day yet all of us have darkish secrets and techniques that creep up in the back of us observed as a lot as melancholy, ensuing in no longer being chuffed in a wedding ceremony.
2016-12-05 10:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship of his marriage when he cheated, why he cheated with you, the type of person he is, etc. I don't really believe the old adage "once a cheater always a cheater", because every ones circumstances are so different. If you two truly love each other, have trust, respect, caring and understanding, then he won't cheat on you. I think people cheat because they are lacking something in their marriage, others cheat just to cheat and see if they can get away with it. Only you can decide which type of man you are now with.
2007-03-08 08:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I'm not a woman, I also am bothered by people who deliberately sleep with married people. Are morals a gender thing? I will say that he WILL cheat on you too. Why shouldn't he? After all, by your own actions, you have shown that you feel cheating is OK. Karma WILL bite you on the butt. Then, you'll find out how it feels to be cheated upon.
2007-03-08 08:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u only know what he is telling u about her. marriages do fail usually because there is another person in there that should not be. he may not cheat on u right away, but he will not treat u any different after awhile than he did her. your no better than his wife, and when u begin to fail to meet every expectation he has, he will begin talking to someone about his relationship with u, and how it wasn't meant to be either. it isn't even about the cheating part, its him being disloyal to his wife, being disrespectful, going behind her back with u, and having no character. never think what he is now doing to her, that he will never do to u eventually. no marriage has a chance if theres someone else in it, pulling on someones heartstrings. he may not cheat, but he certainly won't treat u any differently than he does her after awhile, after the honeymoon stage is over. what u make happen for his wife, will certainly happen to u, its called karma.
2007-03-08 08:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I answered your question and it doesn't bother me in the least.I just don't get the part where you say that you filed for the new boyfriends divorce.It's bad enough that he cheated on his wife.But come on he can't even file for his own divorce.He's just a coward afraid to face his own troubles.That's why I say that he is not a real man.
2007-03-08 08:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man who cheats on his wife is a man who cheats on his wife. I know several women who are #2, 3 and 4th wife and their husbands still cheat. Believe it or not.
2007-03-08 08:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he had left her, then started dating you..I'd think more highly of him. Right now he's feeding you a line about her, so he can be with you. Prove it to yourself. Tell him to go back to to her and make it work or end it with her. Tell him you'll wait 3 months for him, but will not see him until then. His actions will tell you if he has integrity or not...then you can react how you need to to free youself from this mess...
2007-03-08 08:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many people change. I think that if you haven't expierenced it you shouldn't judge. People do change. We make mistakes to learn from them. Life isn't a bed a roses. To many people like to shake their fingers at others. Its too bad. I say go for it. And don't worry about it. Have fun and love each other.....
2007-03-08 08:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by beaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like Dr. Phil says, "If they do it with you, they'll do it to you." I would steer clear of anyone who cheated on their spouse with me. It's just not worth it, in my opinion.
2007-03-08 08:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋