When he moved, he called to give his new address and phone number.From the beginning of our divorce, we have always talked every week on the phone.When I went to visit my girlfriend in the same city, he came and picked me up , and took me to his home. She was not there.
Everywhere I went while I was with him, his arms were always round me. Said he would have done lots of things different when we were married.Were still talking on the phone 1,500 miles apart.He wants to visit with me next year.He now wants me to come down again this fall to visit with my girlfriend.
I am still trying to figure out why he doens't want to lose me completely.He has a little baby and now a father.
Can anyone give me any answers to this situation?
2007-03-08 07:53:51 · 11 answers · asked by keesha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like the "grass is always greener" situation. Now that he can't have you, he wants you back.
I believe the next time you two see each other, he is going to come on to you.
Does his wife know about these activities -- you two talking on the phone and seeing each other? If not, he is cheating on her (in my opinion). I think his wife deserves more respect than this and if he isn't going to give it to her, you should.
In my opinion, from the very little you have told, this relationship needs to come to an end. Good luck.
2007-03-08 08:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by mykidsrsaints 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married and looking to have a little fun on the side with you by telling you things he feels you want to hear.. And I bet you are not the only woman he has tried this with. Stay clear of him, there was a reason why you two divorced. Also, he has not respected your kind gesture to remain friendly and instead took this as an indication that you are still interested in him sexually. Limit your conversations with him if to none at all. As you said, he is married and has a child, if you continue to involve yourself with him this will only lead you to confusion and then hurt feelings. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-08 08:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I ask you why are you waisting your time? Just stop believing what you want to believe and open your eyes to the reality - you are divorced now, the man has remarried, has his own life and continues to play games with you and his new wife. What more do you need to know and how much more pain does he have to cause so that you move with your own life too? btw, I don't mean to sound harsh, I just know what it's like to live in your "imaginary romantic world". Good luck!
2007-03-08 08:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by Alyssa Macey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get him out of your life hes married to another women and their parents find some one single and tell him its over you are not a home wrecker
2007-03-12 08:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let him smooth talk you... he has a family now and that is where he needs to be. You need to make sure he is not using you while you are around and is lying to his child's mother.
2007-03-08 08:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a manipulator and a lousy insincere unworthy man...change your phone number and don't answer his mail.
2007-03-08 07:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him..
This is a train-wreck just waiting to happen.
2007-03-08 07:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's the stupidest thing I have ever heard.
2007-03-08 08:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, you need to stay out of their life now!
2007-03-08 07:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Side dish
2007-03-08 07:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋