what would you do when all your friends and family tell you that you are emotionless and have no feelings but the truth is that you are covering up your feelings because you feel that no one will understand you if you actually tell them. even my best of all best friends dont get me. i mean where do a person go from there?
2007-03-08 07:43:32 · 22 answers · asked by laneabridges 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's not good for you to keep it in. It ages you as a friend once told me. Sounds like you been hurt a lot so the best thing that you think to do is not express anything. Talk to someone if they are your friends and family they will understand your feelings. Best thing to do it to try to express.-L
2007-03-08 17:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i feel that you can do 1 of 3 things...
1. try to express the emotions that you are feeling. keeping them inside is gonna hurt now and in the long run.
2. find some friends that understand you better. there is someone out there for everyone!
3. if you dont want to put an effort to change or feel better about it (likem, if you feel fine, that wasnt meant to sound bitchiy!), then you could just accept it and live the way you are living now.
2007-03-08 15:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like me sometimes. there's not much you can do, unless you want to express the feelings you hide. I mean eventually you have to grow out of that. I'm kinda half way there. You may do this because you want to be strong and be there for others, like a support. So the only thing you can do is tell them how you feel. Otherwise just leave it alone and eventually you'll change on your own and they will see who you really are.
2007-03-08 16:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe its a sign that you need to vent some. =)
Whatever you're feeling, let it out. Its unhealthy to keep everything inside, especially the bad stuff. It will eat away at you. Besides being completely tactless, your friends and family are telling you that they're able to handle emotion, and that you shouldn't be scared to show a little. They're there for you waiting for you to let them in.
2007-03-08 15:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by notsoswan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by showing a lil bit of emotion. I am not saying divulge each and everything, but why don't you start with something small. For us to feel close to people, we have to share and have to trust them. You know in your heart who loves you. You know in your heart who cares for you. Then start by opening up a lil bit to them. Ask them what you want. If you want them to just listen and be supportive, let them know that. If you need advise, let them know that. This way there is less misunderstanding. Dont keep all your emotions pent up. Yes, no one can be exactly in your shoes, but they can support you, and *try* to understand. And in the process, get to know you better, and strengthen their bond with you. You have to step forward & trust. Your loved ones deserve that...and you deserve that too. By keeping stuff in, you are not doing justice to anyone.
2007-03-08 15:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am that person. It is tough, but be you and embrace you. There is nothing wrong with a little privacy in this day and age and it allows you to think and decide who you are gonna say what to and how. Who cares who gets you and who doesn't, to me that is the best part. Seeing who gets you and who doesn't.
2007-03-08 15:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by in_TIM_idation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like that. My mom calls me "the rock" because I don't show my emotions easily. I don't know why, but that's the way I am. I feel them, I just don't show it. I guess I don't want to look too vulnerable.
2007-03-08 15:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by true blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand. y dont u make an effort and show ur feeling tothe world. i know its gonna be the hardest thing to do but they'll know ur not emotionles and youll feel better than bottling everything inside you
2007-03-08 15:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by calle trece 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to walk away from those that label you.
Everyone is different when it comes to dealing with emotions.
2007-03-08 15:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to express fake emotions.
2007-03-08 15:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋