This happens every time that person is frustrated, or feels insecure starts shouting, calling names, and uses derogatory foul language, I don't respond walk away and plug my ears so the foul words are not audible. The person follows me and starts hitting and kicking biting, then states I made them do it. I want that stopped. What do I do.
2007-03-08 07:40:12 · 13 answers · asked by p.klado 1 in Home & Garden ➔ Cleaning & Laundry
HMMMM....leave...
2007-03-08 07:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by Miriah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the way you have worded your problem I get the feeling that this is someone who is close to you a child or spouse maybe? In this case I would say that you should look into counceling. It also sounds like this is out of your control. I am frightened for you because sometimes this behavior can turn to more violent events if not treated. This person needs a positive outlet for all of their anger (maybe the gym or a karate class). I would not wait to get some help for this person because one day you may turn your back on the person acting out and they may have a knife or gun in their hand. Letting this situation escelate to that measure could be detrimental to your health and thoes around you. If this is someone that you are not legaly bound to get as far away from this person as possible. You are not to blaim for their behavior and should not be forced into believing so. The best thing for you to do would be to distance yourself from the problem, but I understand if this is someone close to you and you could not do that. This sounds like it has gone beyond anything you could take care of on your own and there is no shame in asking for help if you need to. Be safe, I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-08 07:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just enjoy doing that to another person. You should leave or make that person move. File a police report and maybe they can get some mental health care.
I have a sister that likes doing this and even her own children don't want to be around her. That is sad. She would just walk up to them and for no reason flick them in the head or she will just kick you for no reason.
But you should leave or have them leave.
2007-03-08 08:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by T_Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not responsible for "Fixing" them, and you couldn't anyway. All you have the power to do is protect yourself and REFUSE to be part of this destructive pattern of behavior. This may even shock the abuser into seeing what they are doing and prompt them to get help, but don't go back until they have received help, on their own, from outside like a professional counselor.
2007-03-08 07:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Batty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order against them. Don't put up with this. The court system may make him undergo evaluation.
If you don't like that idea, then just stay away.
I have a feeling that this person is either your wife or girlfriend.
2007-03-08 07:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by Fordman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off RUN!! don't stay their go somewhere REALLY far away from that person.. second off FILE a restraining order and CALL THE COPS! don't stand for that stuff nobody deserves to be in abuse and you can do better.. believe me i have had my share i grew up in a house where abuse was their and i took a stand and i got it all to stop i saw my dad do a lot to my mom and the day i saw him almost kill her was the day i had it all stop i put my dad in for endangerment of a child and abuse and attempted murder he is in their for a long time and i hope he stays their and this person will also try to kill you done day PLEASE don't stand for this!! save your self live life and don't take that from NOBODY! theirs nothing you can do about them stopping at all its all psychological and its no use they will never change
2007-03-08 08:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in an abusive relationship, no matter who this person is. You've gotta leave, there is no other option unless you want to continue being this person's punching bag. Take care and good luck.
2007-03-08 07:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a police report for assult. Then leave. Let that person go to jail.
2007-03-08 07:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by eeyorek10 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that relationship quick.Something is bound to happen and you'll regret it ,also maybe to late.
2007-03-08 07:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by damarony896 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do not make another individual do anything. they obviously need professional psychological help.
if they are not willing to accept help, you need to get help yourself to get away from this person.
good luck.
2007-03-10 03:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by Nicurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abusing is very wrong. is it an adult that's doing it? or a young adult? or what? u should contact someone ASAP.
2007-03-08 07:43:13 · answer #11 · answered by LiveLaughLoveDance♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋