Okay, so I have very low self-esteem because I am overweight, and other things - but this one kid in my class is very sarcastic and makes fun of me - by blowing kisses at me and telling me he loves me - and if someone comes and sits by me, he's like "why are you sitting by my girlfriend?" just to be funny. I dont get why people do this - I have not done a thing to this kid - what do I do to get him to stop? On top of that, everyone just goes along with him and laughs and crap. I dont get why they just dont leave me alone.
2007-03-08 07:13:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
he sure does spend alot of his time talking to you & thinking about you. Weird? I wonder why? Hmm?
big girls need love to maybe?
ignore him, picture him fat, 50 and alone!
2007-03-08 07:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get someone to stop negative behavior towards you, there is a heirarchy.
1.) Tell them to stop. If that doesn't work...
2.) Inform someone in authority. If that doesn't work...
3.) Threaten physical harm, because harassment is illegal, and if someone in authority doesn't do something, you're in a bad school. If that doesn't work...
4.) Inflict physical harm.
Now, the second stage usually does the trick if said authority figures care about the people they're supposedly protecting or educating. You should NEVER, under any circumstances, have to resort to options 3 or 4, unless option 2 has been tried on multiple occasions with no success.
2007-03-08 15:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Saturday 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im fat too but im a guy and there is this other guy that always says that im stupid and fat and yesterday he stole $100 from me that was for a field trip and he got this other kid to pull down my pants and kick me in the nuts and it was so imbaracing and im only 11. i bet youre like in high school or something but i know what youre goin through. they do that because they just injoy making people feel like they suck and are not important. you should go tell some one or see a counceler or just do what ever it takes to get away from him.
2007-03-08 15:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Chuckie J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to him.
Jesus said being nice to you enemy's is like poring hot coals over there heads.Which means,when you are nice to someone who is mean to you it makes them feel 2" tall.
Let me also say that heavy girls are almost always sweeter.
There is more to love also.
Sit by me,I'll be your boyfriend.
2007-03-08 15:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him right in front of the class!
2007-03-08 15:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ivan S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋