All ready asked this Question but got mixed anwsers so will try to tell the hole thing this time, I meet this girl on holiday last sep. I wasn't drunk when I first started chatting 2 her and her mate in the first bar, about 2 bars and 3 clubs later all I can remember is kissing her for about an hour then I sat wid her and did something wid my fingers if you know what I mean. but I've been told by people that I was kissing her in another club earlyer on but cant remember that. That night we ended up at the beach just kissin, anyway I didn't see her the next night but the night after she walked into a club and seen me kissing some other girl but I was on holiday and didn't like her that much at the time, and she knew about some other girls on holiday and she tryed to get off wid my Ex best mate. I have meet up and texted just as friends since. now I cant get her out of my head so sent her flowers 2day saying how much I like her but think she is goin 2 say NO I dont like you,
2007-03-08 07:13:07 · 10 answers · asked by Manc 07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh my god, what a mess you are in! i kind of know where you're coming from. im in love with a guy who thinks i only want to be a friend...any way -if you truly love this girl then tell her before its too late. just put it this way, the guy i love has got another girl in his life...GOOD LUCK and hope you get who your heart desires! xxx
2007-03-08 07:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, yes you can be friends with a girl you like more than a friend. It's better to have the person as a friend than not at all right??
But, as you said yourself you were on holidays. You were with other girls, she was with other guys, it's what everyone does on holidays. It is probably just a "holiday fling" (that didn't go far, I know).
How realistic is it that you are friends? What I mean is I consider "friends" as people I have know for a long time, they know me well, we meet for dinner, when we can, we socialise etc. etc.
Anyone I have met and stayed in touch with while away on holidays I would consider acquaintances rather than friends (build to friendship over some time maybe, but I wouldn't be calling them for a moan, etc.)
You only met this girl last September, give it time, keep txting, get to know each other, if you are meant to be friends then ye will stay in touch with her, if you are meant to be more that will happen with time. Time being the key factor here.
Sorry if it's not what you want to hear.
2007-03-08 07:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by Macca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, keep trying if you like her a lot. Don't let her think you are some sort of player though, she probably doesn't want that. I'm sure she will go on a date with you if you sent her flowers, that means a lot. Best of luck to you.
2007-03-08 07:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by amberlynne_2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just friends?? honestly in this situation its not gonna work like that. either u agree to share ur feelings or 4get abt seeing each other. only kids can be just friends after kissing lol
2007-03-08 19:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by vfm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it can happen......... the only thing that maybe hard if she just wants to be friends is........ if you hang out with each other and starts hooking up with other people in front of you.,,,,,,,,, so if your gonna just be friends dont go to a club or anything like that, just hang with her in one-on-one situations
2007-03-08 07:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not have liked you when she kissed you...sorry to tell you. Girls will do almost anything when they are drunk.
2007-03-08 07:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by sem429 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, just cut it loose, u sound like a good lad, time is a wasting, another weekend looms.
2007-03-08 07:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by shane l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, that sounds pretty manic manc.
2007-03-08 07:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thats what happens when you drink
2007-03-08 07:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT THE F*** HE IS TALKING ABOUT
2007-03-08 07:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by kryztal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋