2007-03-08 06:55:22 · 14 answers · asked by JustWondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would feel very bad and ask why ahd how come and this could not be happing to me . But he should know that it wont work and that he must let the other person go if he truly values his marriage or relationship .
2007-03-08 07:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by cquintal1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres what I believe...You simply cannot LOVE 2 people at once not the kind of love in a marriage.You can only love one person.If he truly loved you he wouldn't even consider loving someone else.You are better that that honey you should have this looked into and see if he has cheated and then when yiou find he has get a divorse.
2007-03-08 15:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by anntanner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, at this point I would smile and help him pack his belongings! I have been with him for 19 years - I know all those little things about him that no onle else knows. (He is not nearly as sexy as he appears to be) So, if he were to fall in love with someone else, and believe that she could possibly be better for him than I am - see ya! I don't even know if I would shed a tear! I know that sounds terrible, but anyone who has been married as long as I have, and dealt with as much as I have, will understand!
2007-03-08 15:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The pain felt would not be unlike a red hot blade being pushed slowly through the center of your chest. I couldn't describe it any better than that.
2007-03-08 15:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i really dont know what i would do. i guess that i would ask him who he loves more. and if he couldnt be with me and not her and forget about her then i sappose that i would have to leave him. but you need to know what kind of love it is. does he love her like he cant live without her or just as a friend. because i can seriously say that i do love my friends they mean a lot to me, maybe you just need to understand him more, talk to him and see how he realy feels about her.
2007-03-08 15:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by ~ashley~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be completely devastated and realize we were not meant to be together. He would move out, and we would probably end up divorced. I won't share my man with anyone, physically or emotionally.
2007-03-08 15:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to make a choice. If he chooses you he has to break off all ties to the other person and if he chooses the other person you are better off without him.
2007-03-08 15:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel like crap. That is unacceptable. What on earth makes him think that is OK?
2007-03-08 15:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by SHELLBELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, i'd kick is butt to the curb, he ain't that good enough that he can love me and someone else
2007-03-08 22:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like s..t
2007-03-08 15:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by The Central Scrutinizer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋