ANYWAYS MR CONTROLLING IS VERY DEMANDING AND CANT GIVE ME WHAT I NEED MR NICE HAS A NICE HOME LOVES ME AND IS WILLING TO SHARE HIS HOME AND LOVE WITH ME AND HAS EVERTHING THING I NEED BUT I DONT REALLY LOVE HIM ALL THAT MUCH FREINDS SAY I WIL FALL IN LOVE LATER WE ARE RALLY GOOD FRIENDS AND LIVE WITH EACH OTHER UNTIL I GE T MY HEAD STRAIGHT WHAT SHOULD I DO PLASE HELP ASAP
2007-03-08 06:50:14 · 18 answers · asked by cquintal1234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do the good guy a favor and stay away from him
2007-03-08 06:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr nice guy has everything you need, but then again he has everything other women need and he knows it. So to him you are just another girl who wants him because he has everything he wants. Mr controlling in the other hand is showing you his true face and that's a good thing at least you love him. He is controlling because he is a man and needs to feel that he is in control. You can make him feel in control and that he is The Man and if you are smart you'd get him to do everything you want and will treat you like a fragile rose that needs to be taking care off. Be smart Princess
2007-03-08 07:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by dreamer_VA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have alone time. You are being smart by not being with the control freak, your life would just be miserable. As for settling with the other guy, just because he has good material thing's is morally wrong. Are you in a desperate stage, where you have to make a decision? I think it would be to your best interest to stay single and take care of yourself until Mr. Wonderful comes along. You won't regret it. Good luck!!
2007-03-08 06:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the answer is NEITHER! You need to get your head on straight BEFORE you get into a relationship. You do not have to choose one or the other! These are not the only two men on the planet. Work on your self sweetie, then find a guy who appreciates you for all the hard work you have done. You will be a prize for any man and the good ones will gravitate to you because they will see your worth.
2007-03-08 06:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by TracyB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does your heart say. marry mr controlling and divorce later or marry mr nice . If your not sure live with mr nice and see if he turns into mr controlling after a while .
2007-03-08 07:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Kenneth H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump Mr. Controlling. And don't live with any man before marriage for your own sanity. Simple. You can still date Mr. Nice and see how it goes. Good luck!
2007-03-08 06:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay the hell away from My controlling, get yourself together, don't use Mr Nice it is not fair on him.
When you have fixed yourself, then you can date Mr Nice, if he is not there by the time you fix yourself, there are zillions of Mr Nice out there, don't let this turn into a mess.
2007-03-08 07:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by Pink_Zirconia!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart tells you to do. Never think that you will fall in love later, you will regret it. You should not date/marry someone just because they are nice and give you what you want. No one says a true-love relationship is easy. All relationships take time and a lot of work. It is not easy and it is not always fun, but if you stick to who you love, you will be happy.
2007-03-08 06:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by everythingszenidontthinkso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys just friends or are one of you married? It will depend very much on the kind of relationship you are looking for. Maybe you can write down on a piece of paper the good and bad of the two guys and see who has the most good. Then you go for him?
2007-03-08 19:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered it yourself. Mr. Controlling can't give you what you need - you said it yourself. Mr. Nice guy seems better for you - at least for now. Give him a shot. He gives you what you need.
2007-03-08 06:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose neither for 6 months and then after that your heart will settle down and then you will know what you really want in your life
2007-03-08 12:07:56 · answer #11 · answered by Matchstick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋