Does it make you feel guilty that you are sleeping with another man even though it is fantasy? Or does pique your interest to try it and have NSA sex on the side?
2007-03-08 06:29:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So ladies, do you think my wife is using my fantasy as an excuse to get herself some on the side and then blame my fantasy afterward?
2007-03-08 06:40:49 · update #1
From a happily married woman: If it's a fantasy why feel guilty. Those fantasies have brought my husband some REAL pleasure. Its the age old saying who cares where you get your appitite as long as you come home for dinner. Fantasy is not cheating.....its only fantasy....otherwise I'm a two timing bisexual whore.
2007-03-08 06:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by ste.phunny 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I enjoy it. I ask him to do it. It makes it exciting if you really get lost in it. After 16 yrs. we enjoy this very much. We didn't always do this, that's why it's exciting. Guilty??!! Why? It's my husband and we don't go farther than just involving the 2 of us.....unless you count the people on the tv screen when we watch "movies". No, never want to take it any further than the 2 of us. That would screw it all up and cause major problems. Seems innocent at first, but would only lead to trouble.
2007-03-08 15:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of people want NSA sex on the side. They just pretend there not attracted to anyone else. Thats not human.
2007-03-08 14:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My man and I both roleplay and have fantasys, but we draw the line at going any further. I think it is probably normal, but when you truly Love someone and have trust and faith in them, you really do not desire any one else.
2007-03-08 14:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would not feel guilty at all....if it was his fantasy....then I win twice!
2007-03-08 14:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Lori D 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋