hurts you so much.treats u badly u...u kno youve done things in the past but u cant let them go...u try to..u kno u can..but u dnt want to......cuz u love them! help me understand
2007-03-08 06:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by mil_dime09 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I stopped doing that when I stopped printing the words "wipe feet here" on my forehead - in other words, when I stopped being a doormat.
Let go and you will see everything around you get brighter - especially your friends, who have been tolerating this insufferable person as well.
Good luck!
2007-03-08 06:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is amazingly more suitable positive to have loved and lost than to have in no way loved in any respect. (Paraphrasing of a few guy's citation.) it truly is an journey no you'll describe to you, nor could you want to omit out on. the shape is truly well worth the consequences. First you are able to open your heart, then only flow with the flow. Your constanting searching for romance may be clouding your ingenious and prescient even as what you've been searching for is in undeniable sight.
2016-12-05 10:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom is like that. growing up I can rember one guy kicking her in the chest and stomic untill she passed out, When she woke up he beat her with a cane, then grug her to the garage were he chcked her with a wire.
I rember another guy holding her down and burning her with cigs.
You need to think about if you do love them. My mother "loves" every man she is around, they are always Mr. right, always the best men in the world, they dont hurt her they love her. Her problem is she thinks she needs a man at all times.
Realtionships can be like pet shop Pups, You see it you need it and then they piss all over you.
I dont know exactly what Hurting you means so here is another example
My husband and I go though alot of ups and downs, I love him more then anyone. When we are at a hard spot it seems like we have had more bad times, of corse when we are not fighting it seems like its al been good.
You can sit down and write down as many good and bad times as you can rember, that will help you see your reationship for what it is not what you want it to be.
If you honestly dont want to be with them then end it fast. the longer you wate the harder it will be on both of you.
If you think you want to save it sit down and talk, explain how you feel and start working on it.
I cant tell you what is holding you there only you know.
2007-03-08 06:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by monkeyeatbutt@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't something you can turn off and on. Whether or not the person that you love is deserving of your love or has ill treated your love, taken advantage of it, neglected it, whatever the case may be...If you love them, you love them. We are designed to love one another and to believe in the best of one another, you my friend...are just really good at it, and sometimes....it bites you. Join the club.
2007-03-08 06:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are addicted to the abuse and attention is possibly gets you from others who pity you, or maybe you just love too hard and it is hard to let go......it is scary, but you'll be okay just let them go and you start enjoying life
2007-03-08 06:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by alex grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are hooked on feeling like a doormat. Work on you, then you wont have room for shmucks in your heart.
2007-03-08 06:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you've dedicated your heart to them, and then to have it broken comes at you suddenly, and you're unprepared.
Give it time, your heart will heal.
2007-03-08 06:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Xavier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Love is blind, and it will take over your mind
What you think is love, is truly not
You need to elevate and find"
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2007-03-08 06:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by {{...Ladi...}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can explain it, you stop loving.
2007-03-08 06:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by snowdrop 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋