about a situation he was dealing with. Of course, I was heartbroken, but we still talked. Well, I found out why, he was really getting to know a one night stand he was with prior to us who happen to have gotten pregnant and had his child. Well, that whole situation was the reason he was feeling "depressed", which I helped him deal with. Well, I lost it on him, I called him yelling, swearing, called him every name I could possibly think of. I thought we had a solid relationship, and he cared more about me then this "tramp". Sorry but its true. I know there is a child in the middle of all of this. Im the one who told him to be a part of the childs life, not thinking he would leave me to be with this girl! He turned it around on me telling me I cursed at him & said horrible things, made me out to be the bad one?!When he talked about me!What do you think, do you think he knows he's a scumbag, like I said he is & won't admit it? Is he being defensive? By the way, they arent together anymore
2007-03-08 06:25:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel for you. You were his shoulder and expected to work this out together. What you did was right by helping him manage through this. He stabbed you in the back. You have a right to be angry. Dont blame yourself. Dont bother with him anymore. I dont think that it could be worked out. There is now issues of trust, honesty, boundaries and way too much hurt to get back together. Also the 'I told you so'.
In time you will find someone who will appreciate and cherish you the way you deserve.
2007-03-08 08:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Paradox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is garbage. Atleast he is part of the child's life..seems like maybe,just maybe he is trying to do the right thing for the child. Children come first.
2007-03-08 06:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Navulam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be thankful that you are no longer in that mess.
Run, and run fast. There are more, better, and nicer guys out there, this one needs to be thrown back.
2007-03-08 06:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by David G 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a gem. Be thankful that loser is out your life!
2007-03-08 06:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real loser.
2007-03-08 06:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by baby girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both sound like trailer trash.
2007-03-08 06:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋