2007-03-08 06:25:02 · 25 answers · asked by tony t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
also the effect on our children my eldest whos 16 wont even speak to her
2007-03-08 06:29:35 · update #1
yes i did find out and was devasted and we tried to sort it out over 1 week but she left and has been gone 12 weeks
2007-03-08 06:36:21 · update #2
Nope!
2007-03-08 06:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by prettywoman 6 · 1⤊ 5⤋
Tony,
Unfortunately there's not a great deal of difference between men and women. Some folks have affairs just because the opportunity is there, some do it out of alleged new love, some even do it as a form of revenge or spite. There is all ways fall out and the innocent ones seem to suffer. I know, I've caused this chaos a few years ago. The repercussions have only just died down. As you re on the receiving end I can only say be strong for yourself and those who matter to you. Good luck mate. Andy.
2007-03-08 15:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
I think it really depends on the woman. If shes a genuine person who has fallen from grace then yes guilt will be there but if shes a player who does if for the attention then no.
Most woman cant deal with a failed relationship and tend to bury it so deep that the lie becomes the truth.
regards
idai
2007-03-08 15:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by idai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the opportunity to do a few years back but couldn't. I love my boyfriend very much and wouldn't beable to do it, if i did i would feel very guilty. I honestly believe that women/men have problems in their relationship first before they go and have an affair or are simply greedy
2007-03-08 14:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by fairylandk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! Women feel less guilty than men do. The reason being is because women don't acknowledge they had sex with the man because it "meant nothing." Further, unlike men, women always have a good excuse for having an affair. So it's justified and therefore no guilt. Women are great at lying to themselves. If any guilt is felt at all, they feel guilty for lying to themselves.
2007-03-08 14:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry for you tony i can appreciate how you must be feeling, you all must be devastated. i guess she must feel some guilt, but doubt she will be showing it right now, maybe she will even find ways to justify herself but you know that its wrong and so do your kids. this is a difficult time for you right now but the raw feelings will pass. good luck to you all
2007-03-08 16:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by sue brew 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not always,even when children are involved....
It sounds as if you loved her more than she did you,you're better off without her by the sound of it...Stay strong and be happy,someone else will come along 1 day and you'll look back and realise you're better off..........
2007-03-09 08:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by freddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I believe my ex-wife is paralyzed with guilt over being caught in her affair. She hides from me when I take our daughter back to her during exchanges, avoids eye contact, etc.
2007-03-08 15:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time they feel guilty is when it wasn't any good, and they feel guilty about using that much time and effort on something they didn't get to enjoy.
But if it was good, then they come up with some stupid justification for it, and go about their business.
2007-03-08 14:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by David G 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes probably
2007-03-08 15:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by laura k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are selfish enough to break their commitment to their spouse then i doubt that they feel guilt for doing it.the pain of finding out and having your marriage break up is awful i know but trust me this pain will pass and you will be better off for not having a cheating wife
2007-03-08 14:39:06 · answer #11 · answered by patbgone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋