Should I be concerned that she will latch on to my fantasy and try to make the fantasy a reality one night when I am not around? Lately, she is commenting to me that she may want to try it before we get too old. This scares me. Did I create a monster with my fantasy?
2007-03-08 06:12:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Momma K, I made it clear to my wife that it is just fantasy and that I don't really want this in real life. Seems as if some of you women do not know how to separate fantasy from reality.
2007-03-08 06:23:33 · update #1
You men should be careful what you wish for with your fantasies. That's why they say that some fantasies roleplayed are risky business as evident by your wife thinking you gave her the greenlight to try it. If you pound something into someone's head every other day eventually it will sink in.
I hate to say it but it sounds like you ruined a good wife with your fantasy.
2007-03-08 06:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Momma K 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cuckold Role Play
2016-11-12 06:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think maybe you did. You need to start drawing lines for you and your wife now, before things get out of hand. There is a difference between fantasizing about your wife with another man (or woman) and actually having your wife sleeping with out people. It sounds like you're not ready to cross that line from fantasy into reality and you need to let her know that. There's nothing wrong with her cheating, if you're okay with it (since you obviously get off on it) and if you give her permission, but if you're not okay or if she's considering doing it behind your back, then she needs to reign back on that.
Good luck!
2007-03-08 06:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should communicate with her. Make it clear that while you enjoy the fantasy you don't want to really live it.
If she does try to bring a third person into the bedroom and you aren't equally excited about it, it will ruin your marriage. No exceptions.
2007-03-08 06:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what "cuckold" fantasies are. Why would you be afraid you wife wants to act them out with you?...some men I know would LOVE IT! OR maybe these fantasies involve more than one playmate and you are a bit concerned that that is what she is aiming for.
2007-03-08 06:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have this totally crazy fantasy that I wake up in the morning and walk to the kitchen and my boyfriend has completely scrubbed it from top to bottom...spotless.....I have shared this fantasy with him but he doesn't seem to want to fulfill it...whatever is a girl to do?!
2007-03-08 06:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You spoke it into existence - "Let there be s l u t And there was s l u t. And you saw the s l u t was good. There was evening and morning the first day."
My advice to you is to stop bringing it up. If she brings it up, do not be insecure about it. It will only drive her into my -I mean someone else's arms.
2007-03-08 06:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
let her do it man you think roleplaying is hot wait till she is on a date and you are at home waiting on her to come home with details my d!!k gets so hard a cat could not scratch it
2007-03-08 12:09:28 · answer #8 · answered by Al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it...
Divert her to a fantasy 3some with you, her and another woman.
2007-03-08 06:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
funny...My husband started a fantasy...about we were different people cheating on our spouses..It was fun...But I doubt a woman would seriously take it too far.
2007-03-08 06:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋