My boyfriend has this new job and he has to get up at 4:00 in the morning every day to drive to the job. I want him to get a different job sumthing less dangerous I want him to work near close to me but he don't listen what should I do should I tell him to quit and find a new job or should I let him keep this job? Help please respond back to me it will really help me.
2007-03-08 06:10:26 · 7 answers · asked by Minnie 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
i know this is happenign to u because u luv him a lot and dont want any unforseen in future. because driving at that time is not safe because people drive crazily thinking traffic is low at that time.
tell him u want him safe and u care for him. tell him to look for another job while he is doing this. or if u have his resume details y dont u find one for him. that wud help him without taking much of his time too.
also its important that he is satisfied with the job he is doing than u being satisfied because he want him employed right. not jumping from job to job and u wnat him to be stable to get married to u and for ur better future.
2007-03-08 06:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by slv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him figure out what he wants to do. You need to agree to be happy with whatever that is.
When I had my son, I wanted my husband to change jobs and work an 8-5 job. He did and after about six months, he was so miserable. Thank God he went back to doing what he loved.
You will calm down after a bit and if you don't, make yourself. He should be the one to decide what he wants to do and when he decides to change, it will be his decision
2007-03-08 06:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by ggirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how difficult it is. I'm sure he likes the job n won't agree to quit it. Instead u can post his profile in a good job site n incase he gets a job at regular timing n salary more than what he earns, he will quit that.
Good Luck ! :-)
2007-03-08 06:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never said what is job is, and what makes it dangerous. It sounds to me that you are over protective. Why does he have to work close to you?
Assuming this is a grown man we are talking about, then he should work wherever he wants to work.
2007-03-08 06:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by CJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope that your boyfriend is a real man who will do what he thinks is best. Does he just do what you tell him too?
2007-03-08 06:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some has to do dangeros work
he is working for you
dont worry god will keep him safe
2007-03-08 07:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by The Prince of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What job is it?
2007-03-08 06:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Juggalo Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋