2007-03-08 06:05:44 · 20 answers · asked by icecreamheadache420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no. Marriage is about more than just sex
2007-03-08 06:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Monet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just wouldn't marry one that wouldn't go downtown! I was my husbands first "downtown" adventure. The first time we slept together he said "I don't do that" (this was after I'd spent about a half an hour in HIS city) My reply was "you do now!" He did, and we've been married for 16 years now. We both go downtown quite often and we're living happily ever after. People that say sex isn't important are cracked. Sex is a HUGE part of a marriage. I can't imagine not being sexually compatible with my husband. It would suck.
2007-03-08 06:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why would you even ask such a dumb question like that! Are you really thinking about leaving your man b/c of that? Maybe your just not at your best down there and that's why he doesn't?.. Whatever the reason you don't get a divorce or leave your husband over something like that! I feel sorry for your husband.
2007-03-08 06:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would simply have not married her to begin with. I don't understand having a hang-up about oral sex, as long as both partners bathe appropriately. It is a very intimate exchange, and anyone who thinks it is somehow degrading are too full of themselves.
If my wife suddenly stopped, I'd consider it a symptom of a larger issue of attraction or intimacy. I wouldn't leave her for not giving me head, but I would want to resolve the issue(s) which resulted in that condition.
2007-03-08 06:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well, if he stops taking a bath and it's starting to smell bad then I will find it a reason for me not to go downtown. Also with him if I start to smell like a fish and not take care of myself then I think he has the right not to do it... But for me it's more of hygeine and how you make your partner go into it...
2007-03-08 06:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you wanted him to wear a saddle with a feather in his @SS, and he didn't want to would you ask the same question?
Aren't there some things you refuse to do? How would you feel if he contemplated leaving you because you didn't cook in the nude, get tied up or any number of things.
Most of our spouses don't do everything we want them too. And for those of you that do GOD BLESS YOU, and your spouse better love the h#ll outta you.
2007-03-08 06:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Relationships are not ALL about sex or "going downtown".
Its a lot more than that.
2007-03-08 06:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would leave your husband/wife over that, you got married for the wrong reasons.
2007-03-08 06:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by isisrocca82 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But then there would be no marriage in the first place had that not happened.
2007-03-08 06:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. but it would be nice to figure why he doesn't like to and somehow get him to buy into "working through it" so that it is enjoyable for both of you. i guess that might be the hard part--getting him to be interested in trying to resolve it.
good luck.
2007-03-08 06:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a stupid reason to leave a marriage.
2007-03-08 07:01:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋