Broke up with them.
That probably takes some explaining, actually. It was your classic 'boy meets girl, boy falls in love with girl, girl falls in love with boy, girl has long-term monogamous boyfriend back home' story.
We had been friends for about four months, and lovers for two. Then her boyfriend came to visit from Australia, and I saw how happy he made her. It was also clear that me and she, as much as we loved each other, were probably not going to last forever (she wanted to move back to England eventually, I intend to move back to Canada, plus differences in desire to have children, and a few other issues).
Cue a week of soul searching, moralising, and analysing. In the end I realised that because I loved her, I wanted her to be as happy as possible. And he was going to make her happier on a much longer term than I. We could continue to be together while he was overseas, but that might risk damaging her relationship with him. So in the end, I (actually we, I discussed it with her, and she agreed) decided that it would be better to be platonic. So we broke up.
We're still friends, incidentally.
Do I regret it? Absolutely and not at all. She was a wonderful cuddler, and a fantastic lover - I miss it muchly. But she's better off this way, and I can't possibly regret making her better off - it makes me happy to know she's happy.
2007-03-08 06:32:29
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answered by Guy Norman Cognito 4
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answered by newcomer 4
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Stay with him for over 2 years even though he was an idiot and didn't treat me well. No, I wouldn't say I regret it.
2007-03-08 06:05:28
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answered by a female 3
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Some things that I wouldn't repeat here. No use in regretting it, you can't change it, so use it as a learning experience.
2007-03-08 06:06:10
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answered by Lemme tell ya... 5
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Driven 200 miles in the wilderness at night. Yes I do she left me and married some loser
2007-03-08 06:05:40
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answered by ? 7
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Tell people I was pregnant to have an excuse to get back together and Yes I do, dammm high school years!
2007-03-08 06:05:20
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answered by ♪F↑☺W£R♪ 4
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Waited for them. I will never wait for a guy ever again. If they want to be with me than they will but I'm not sticking around unless it's made clear.
2007-03-08 06:05:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Let them stay the night. It sucked, we had to talk after sex, it took all the fun out of it.
2007-03-08 06:06:53
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answered by the_great_offender 3
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dated him for longer than i should have... yes i regret it sometimes.
2007-03-08 06:10:37
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answered by Anonymous
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some pretty dumb stuff I'd rather not rehash....but i don't regret it..its life
2007-03-08 06:04:59
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answered by Ron B. 7
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