I have small breasts.I am very much concious about it.I am even afraid to start a relationship.Does this matter in a married life?In a relationship between man and woman?I am in a kind of inferiority complex.Help me!
2007-03-08 05:42:24 · 15 answers · asked by momy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No it doesnt matter, mostly because the man you marry will obviously love you for who you are, small breasts and all. I personally love small breasts and prefer them, I know there are others like me out there, you will find one.
2007-03-08 05:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, there are men that like smaller breasts. I even once belonged to the Little bitty-titty committee. I am one of these men.
I think big breasted women are a turn off, and whomever sent the message to all these gals that they needed to be a big cup size were crazy.
Besides, there is a lot more to a woman than their breasts, and a woman with intelligence and emotionally sound as well as humor can make a woman and does make a woman very attractive in my book.
I myself are into a woman's clavicles and like the way a nice thin chained necklace compliments their beautiful neck and claivicle areas. But, that's just me.
If you don't have a B/F right now, believe me, there are plenty out there that like smaller breasts, and if a man accepts you as you are, don't change. He saw things in your that were just right. Don't compare yourself to other women. You are genuinely unique as an individual, and there are other women out there that don't have big breasts that are loved deeply by their men.
Be okay with you. God thought he did a good job making you ........YOU! Stay that way! Screw society. They are creating more mental cases than they are centerfold gals.
2007-03-08 05:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by The Sylvan Wizard 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Breast size really isn't that big of a deal. Many men's heads turn when a large rack goes by, but other men are equally turned on by a rear end. I am partial to long dark hair and a pretty face.
My tips:
1. Don't ask someone who is romantically interested in you if they have a problem with your breast size. Absolutely nothing good can come of that question. Just keep your mouth shut.
2. Approach sex with enthusiasm. If you want your breasts to get more attention run your fingers into his hair and pull his head to your nipples. He will enjoy your being forward and he'll remember to not neglect them. (Same goes for other areas you want him to give attention to.)
If he is attracted to you, he likes your breasts just fine. Don't make them an issue or they will truly be an issue for the both of you, and you will push away a good thing.
2007-03-08 05:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I always had small breasts, barely an A cup. I never had anyone complain. After 10 years of marriage my husband bought me implants after I nagged him for them constantly. Although I feel much better about my body and the clothes I am now able to wear he says he liked my small breasts just as well and he definately doesn't think they were worth the 6 grand he spent on them!
2007-03-08 06:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by sbj95 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol.....no, it does not matter what size your breasts are! He knows what size they are when he marries you so why would it be a problem? Besides, having huge breasts has it's disadvantages.......slumping, hip and back pain, stretch marks, they hang over your belly......oh, and when you get old you'll have to throw 'em over your shoulder or you'll trip on them!! lol......trying to make you feel better. I've always thought mine were average at 38D but someone keeps rubbing hers in my face.......guess that's really all some women have going for them =o) But also, breasts are mostly fatty tissue so if you're thin you're breasts have less fat whereas if your a bigger girl you'll have bigger breasts due to the extra fat. Be happy with what you have! I'm sure your husband will love them because he loves you and they come with the package!
Take Care,
Tori
2007-03-08 05:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Incognito 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men marry the woman that they court and accept that she will be the same person married, as she was before the marriage, including their physique. Any man who thinks he can reshape or remake his wife is sorely mistaken and a fool.
However, if you do not like the way you look, you should take control. If augmentation will make you feel more confident in yourself, give it consideration. If you have a low opinion of yourself (esteem) very few men will have a higher opinion of you.
2007-03-08 05:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, size does not matter. Some men are infact attracted to smaller breasts. Anyways. You don't want to date someone who is only after "big breasts" or a "nice body" and if you do, you can be BEAUTIFUL even with small breasts. Look at Charlize Theron.
2007-03-08 06:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by semiphez1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it does then the guy is not worth keeping.
No size of boobs do not matter, or should not matter in a relationship and marriage.
2007-03-08 06:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man should love you for you.. not your breasts. If a man ever complains about it.. then he isn't worth your time.
You shouldn't worry about it so much. Everyone is different.. and in turn unique.
2007-03-08 05:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men in general love boobs large or small. Be happy with what you got because who ever you start to see in a relationship will love them either way.
2007-03-08 05:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋