My so called friend always have something negetive to say about me or my relationship with my boyfriend. She is a cool person to hang around but she is starting to get on my nerves. What should I do?
2007-03-08 05:38:37 · 15 answers · asked by Ann4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop talking to her.
2007-03-08 05:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by Your Mom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply and politely sit your friend down and tell her that the fact she always say negative things about you, your relationships, etc is not going well with you. She might be jealous of youor might be thinking that your boyfriend is replacing her if you don't hang around much with her lately. Tell her how good a friend she is and how much you like hanging out with her. Do not shout at her during the discussion, try by all means to keep it cool so that she realises that you are not fighting her but you are just raising your concerns. Try to find out why she makes those negative comments about you or your boyfriend. If its because she thinks your boyfriend is replacing her, assure her that he is not and counteract that by keeping your appointments with....
Good Luck......
2007-03-08 05:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by leri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so quick to judge your friend she may know something you don't. You need to find out ask her directly if she knows something about your man and if she has an answer you don't like don't assume she's just making it up because she's jealous. Yes some friends are jealous because of the time you don't spend with them anymore or maybe she likes you, you never know these days. Or maybe she liked your man before you hooked up there are alot of reasons that could be. Don't assume if she was your friend before he was your man I'd try to get to the bottom of this. Don't make the mistake of pushing away a friend because guys come and go. What if he turns out to be a cheater or a total jerk and you are minus a friend that was only concerned for you. Find out the reason why. And then act accordingly. I wouldn't ruin a friendship over some guy unless I was positive he was the man I would marry. Think about it.
2007-03-08 05:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Question: Is she gay and has an attraction towards you is what you should be asking yourself. Either that or she is just jealous of your companionship with your man. If this is causing a strain on your "so called friendship" then kick her to the curb. It could cause problems with your man. She may even be trying to get with your man. Think about it and if the friendship isnt worth it...bail out of this friendship.
2007-03-08 05:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my friend does the same thing i am engaged and she is single so she always has a smart comment to make about my fiancee she doesnt even know him that well, she makes comments about my clothes or my hair or even my make up its like "i didnt ask your opinion i know i look good so stay out of it" i love her to death but she does know how to push my buttons sometimes i suggest you talk to your friend tell her how you feel with out hurting her feelings maybe when she makes another comment give her some feed back on her relationships see how she takes it if it starts a fight just be like i thought we were criticizing? dont hide your feelings from her because if they build up one of these days you might lash out which could be even worse, if she is a good friend she will get over it good luck
2007-03-08 05:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's a friend, then you can be honest with her. Be tactful, but be honest. Ask her why it seems like she is always so negative about you and your boyfriend. Tell her it hurts your feelings. It's remotely possible that she has no idea she's hurting your feelings. If she is aware that she's hurting you, let her know you deserve better.
2007-03-08 05:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Liza 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
True friends should not say negative things about you.
I do not think that is what true friends are for. I would be kind to her at all times. I would look for another friendship.Friends should be proud for you not jealous
A jealous heart is never satisfied..
2007-03-08 05:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
see if you are a friend by many years,there must be somthing becaoz of what ur frnd talk wrong abt ur gf.do one thing for one day talk one day any another girl on mobile or whatever and tell your frnd that now she is my gf.if then she jelous and say somthing wrong you can say that,but i dont think .but tell you one thing i think you hav som feeling abt ur frnd which force you tohav some answer abt this.m i right?
2007-03-08 05:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well obviously she is jelous of you, and that is not a true friend, a friend is someone you trust and if shes so jelous how do you know what she could pull on you!!!......you never know if shes trying to get in beween you and your BF so dont let her.....people like that are never trust worthy!!!
2007-03-08 05:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by ~Sexy Rose~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's sth u should think about be4 u decide whether to stay in or out of this friendship..do u really like her?!...or do u have have alot in common between the 2 of u...u should try to make a comparison between the things u like about her and the things u don't like!..and then u decide if this friendship is going to work out or not...of course it will work out if the things u like about her weighs what u don't....personally i think jealousy is sth u can deal with , just confront her with ur suspicions and hope things will work out!
2007-03-08 06:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe u are spending alot of time with him and not no time with her just remeber guys come and go friend are forever dont just blow her off make time for the both of them i wouldnt call her jeolus she needs a friend like you need your b/f
2007-03-08 05:45:08 · answer #11 · answered by shyshy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋