im so in love with my boyfriend and i would never have a relationship with a girl. i really like men. but sometimes i htink about having sex with a woman. is just that a sexual thing. like ill masturbate thinking about a girl but as soon as i come i feel disgusted and i only want to think about men. once again i would try sex with a woman but i would never have a serious relationship with anything other than a man. im a bi or just curious.
btw i have kissed girl and touched them there but ive never licked u know what im i kinda want to try that...
2007-03-08 05:35:53 · 17 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
as long as im with my boyfriend i would never try anything. he knows that sometimes i have this fantasy but i have told him that i would never do it as long as im with him cuz that would change the way he sees me. honestly i dont want to be bi cuz i think is wrong, i guess im just looking to experiment on a drunk and wild nite maybe if i were single and thats it... honestly i dont know how people can be lesbian i mean guys are so great. btw im not too young im old enough to have sex im sexually active my family knows about it. im not a litle girl having sex behind her parents back. they know and im old enough to do it. im just confused about this matter that's all.
2007-03-08 05:50:38 · update #1
i am glad u said all this i am the same way TO THE TEE!! you are not bi you are just curious and the thought and maybe doing it once or twice excites you, and down deep just like me love the dick much more!!!
you like the thought and the boobs and kissing and the thrill not the licking and all that. i feel ya girl dont worry.
2007-03-08 06:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by Soldier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen; Everyone has at one time or another thought of having sex with someone of the same sex . you cannot help it that's just the way our minds work... It does not mean that you are bisexual..However if you carry it to the next step (like kissing & heavy petting fingering & so on this has started to become an obsession and you could very well be bisexual... If you hate yourself after doing the petting you should stay away ffrom it I could be a destructive problem later on.. If I was a woman I would definitely be a lesbian...yuk yuk Be careful that it don't blow up in your face......good luck
2007-03-08 13:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by themark 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol. You are either very young or not too comfortable discussing sexual issues. Anyway, you are probably situationally bisexual. Meaning, if put in the right moment, with the right woman and proably the right amount of liquor...you would go for it. But you wouldnt admit it to too many people, in fear of being looked down at, or from fear of feeling guilty. My advice to you is to try it if u want, BUT be honest with whichever girl you try it with and DO NOT experiment with a full blown lesbian. We dont like being experiments for bicurious women who may or may not act liket hey know us the next day. Its just rude. So find someone else who isnt too sure about it & have fun with eachother!!!
2007-03-08 13:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the people on here are gonna mistakenly call you bisexual. Ignore them. You are bicurious, which doesn't mean your bisexual or Gay. You are straight but curious about if you actually like the same sex. Since your disgusted after masturbating about girls, your clearly not bisexual. If you weren't disgusted, and you also wanted to seek a relationship with a girl, you'd be bisexual.
Since you have kissed girls and touched them before, the question is, did you like it or not. Would you want to do it again or not. If yes, then you actually are bisexual. If no, then you were bicurious but no longer fasinated with testing your sexuality, so you'd be straight. Only you can truly know.
2007-03-08 14:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Coming from a straight guy perspective, I have long believed that women have desires occasionally of other women. When you are young you have slumber parties and you hug and kiss when greeting, and even practice for your first kiss with a guy on your girl friends. It doesn't take a streach of the imagination to see girls going a little farther, and maybe its natural with women. Who's to say. The number one fantasy of men is to be with two women, if you can handle it, maybe that's what you need. Ask him if he would like that. Good luck! What a lucky guy.
2007-03-08 21:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dutch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just bi-curious. You could be bi but are ashamed to be. The fact that you feel shame probably means that sometime in your life you had influences that looked down on such activity. Since you love your boyfriend, it's probably best to keep it a fantasy and not ruin the monogamy of it.
2007-03-08 13:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i agree. your bi. your just caught up in what society thinks. Cause you've heard so many times that it's "Wrong". Which is why you are so disgusted with yourself. Do what YOU feel is right. My GF is the same way. I dont push her though.. I just let her decide what she is. And I gave her the same advice I gave you. Good luck.
2007-03-08 13:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by dralls4lyf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now u r curious, until u have followed thru with ur fantasy I would not consider u bisexual, If its something u want to explore dont deny yourself
2007-03-08 13:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♥NEVAR♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not bisexual. If anything you're bi-curious. You're curious about what it would be like to be with another woman, but you don't know if you want to go through with it. There's nothing wrong with that at all.
2007-03-08 15:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by cooldude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know do I like tacos as much as hot dogs there aint but one way to find out, visit your local taco bell
2007-03-08 14:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by frosty62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋