We saw each other for the first time in about month two nights ago. The conversation was good. Emotional. Heartfelt. But she seemed unsure of getting back together. We then hugged, or embraced, more accurately. Then started kissing. Then started kissing some more. And then ended up going to my house for more kissing. And then a goodbye. I reached out to her yesterday and she said she is not sure if this is a good idea. I feel horrible. Rejected. I wrote her a letter articulating my feelings. I suppose in the end there is nothing left to do, but wait. Unless you have any other advice.
Thanks.
2007-03-08 05:20:02 · 7 answers · asked by questionmarc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you have done enough, you don't want to manipulate her, the balls in her corner now. Give it some time and she'll come to a decision, and you'll be able to go from there.
2007-03-08 05:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want a girl who is confused and playing games with your heart i mean you broke up then reunited then kissed and then she said it isnt a good idea she is doing this b/c she knows she can get you back when ever she feels the need to dont let her hang you up like a coat then pick u back up when shes ready for you you are better then that show her you dont need her tell her the way you feel and if she doesnt agree then it isnt meant to be good luck
2007-03-08 14:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by shyshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start fresh, act like you to are just meeting again, and do things for her you did not do before (like take her on a date. send her flower with a card to ask her out. Do not try to and "hit it" on the first date)
2007-03-08 13:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by questions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the lines of communication open but don't dwell on living with each other. Give her time and space to make up her mind. Reaffirm your love for her and why you love her.
2007-03-08 13:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers with a card that says you never know what you had until you lose it, if you give me another chance I wont make the same mistake twice.
2007-03-08 13:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by letthepartybeginnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey guy, it's girls who need real luv they're not jst searchin' 4 hugs and kisses althaugh it's needed...but they're in need 4 gd speechez ...try 2 be in touch wid one of her frendz and tell them to persuade her dat u luv her ...girls like us doesn' search 4 anythng except true feelings.....if u luv her try givin' it a kick ...but if u don't search or another
2007-03-08 13:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by lolita-u-can-luv 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
remember you guys broke up for a reason -maybe that's why she is unsure--give her a call and set up a date to talk to her -tell her it's just talking-- no pressure
2007-03-08 13:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋