i dont know how i can tell my parents.....i think im pregnant because my stomach is getting bigger and i have aches and it's just BAD!!!i was with my boyfriend and we kinda did somethings and im scared now....i told him i thought i was pregnant and he said he would be 100% supportive being a father and he's 14 also.He doesn't even talk to me as much as he did before we did what we did and it was both our first time.I dont know what to do!!!
2007-03-08 04:56:02 · 15 answers · asked by person. 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Oh dear........I'm sorry to say this, but he probably will not be as supportive as he says he will be, unless his parents force him to. Try not to stress out too much until you know for sure if you're pregnant. You need to somehow get a pregnancy test or get to the health department and take one. If you are, you will just have to tell your parents....they will definitely be upset and disappointed, but it probably won't be as bad as you think it will be.
2007-03-08 05:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First find out that you ARE infact pregnant. Then get your boyfriend and both of you sit down with your parents and both of you tell them together. Say "Mom,dad, I know you trusted me and I never ment to hurt you or disappoint you, but I need your love, support, and help now more than ever. we are pregnant" and of course there will be yelling, crying and the question "How did this happen?" but they will get over it. Then after that is done, then the both of you go and tell his parents the same thing together. If your boyfriend has decided to not take part in this, then tell your parents, then you and your parents go and tell his parents and if they do not believe you, tell them you will get a DNA test. It'll be hard, but as soon as you get it over with, you will feel so much better. Good luck
2007-03-08 05:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
U need a test, sweetie! $10 at CVS. If you aren't preggo- you need to think about some type of birth control method. If you are pregnant- don't smoke, drink, or do any drugs. Tell your family- who should help you through this time. If not, there are supportive places you can go to for advice in your local area- look up "pregnancy" in the yellow pages. Good luck.
2007-03-08 05:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it were me, I wouldn't tell me parents until I 100% certain that I was pregnant. I would suggest talking to your counselor at school to see if they could assist you in getting a pregnancy test. Or call your local teen resource center and find out how they can help you. I know where I live they give them at no cost and help you with options. Good luck with it and I wish you the best of luck either way.
2007-03-08 05:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Write it in a letter to them. It is much less confrontational for you, and it will give them time to react without you actually being present. They are most likely going to be upset, but can you honestly blame them? They are your best support system if you find out that you are in fact pregnant.
You are going to have to get tested ASAP. If your test comes out negative, I advise you and your boyfriend hold off on sex until you are both old & mature enough to deal with the consequences of your actions.
It wouldn't be a bad idea to get tested for STD's as well. I know it was the first time for both of you, but how sure are you that is was really his first time? I would get tested for your own safety and peace of mind.
Good luck sweety, and in the future try to make better choices.
2007-03-08 05:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by leenajoyce 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1.take a test to make sure and if you are, then you will definitely have to tell your parents if you are only 14! first you want to have a friend take you to a clinic or call a pregnancy hotline so you can talk to them.when i was pregnant, i just started out with, i have some bad news and then they say what and you say, well im pregnant,and theyll react however. but i garuntee they will not want you to have a kid at 14, but make sure you are first before you start stressing out.
2007-03-08 05:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by not2sure 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a test and find out for sure. Tell your parents the honest truth no matter what the results are. They will respect your maturity for being so honest with them.
2007-03-08 05:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by starlight_940 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first get a test and see what happens from there then if you are pregnant you are going to have to tell your parents. and talk to them if you are going to want an abortion or not. but there is no easy way to tell your parents just come out and say it
2007-03-08 05:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by TheOneNOnlyTK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its harder when you live with them. But it is better to tell them sooner than later. Just come out and tell them, be direct. I was scared to tell my parents with my first, and I lived with my husband. They may be disappointed at first, but maybe not, give them a chance. If they are mad, let them be, they will get over it soon.
Congratulations, and good luck with your and parents!
2007-03-08 05:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by sprincess692003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are 14?!?!? You should have been on birth control or used condems. . first you should tell her you are late and you have been feeling some changes in your body and you may think one of the possibilities are pregnancy and see how it goes from there
2007-03-08 05:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋