can a married and happily living lady have another affair? Please be serious, think and answer
2007-03-08 04:41:36 · 37 answers · asked by Padma S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, you can have an affair and love two people, but you can't be in love with two people. Why only love someone with half of your heart? Let him find someone who will love him the way he deserves to be loved....
2007-03-08 04:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Affairs can be confusing. You can love another man but not the same as your husband. Cant have the best of both worlds believe me it will fall apart and that part of being happily married women will be destroyed. If your going to stay married dont have the affair. It will ruin everything and you will never be the same.
2007-03-08 06:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES...It is possible for anyone (not just a woman) to go astray and love someone other than their spouse, No the girl would not have the emotional capacity to give her husband all her love, coz she'll be draining it all on her lover. (Similar to what happens with a New MOM, not that she wont love her husband anymore, just that she is physically and emotionally drained with the arrival of the new born and the new chores that come along, she just wont be as attentive as she used to be. NOTE FOR HUSBANDS: this is the time you have to understand what your wives are going through)
BUT !!!...Where is the need for a MARRIED & HAPPILY living lady to have an affair?
Its the same even for MEN.
If we look closely at extra-marital affairs the root cause is that, the person who goes astray is either feeling lonely/left-out or does not get enough of his/her partners attention & time. It is at this point of time that the person begins to feel the need for a shoulder that he/she could lean on.
"To Love is to share, to share is to care" if this is the basis on which couples would live, then I really don't see any reason for an affair.
Moreover affairs are the beginning of broken families, just imagine! even worse if the couple had children!!!
2007-03-08 05:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Philip G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This question includes a contradiction in terms. Happily married women do not have affairs. Unhappily married women and men have affairs.
Affairs are about filling a void in a relationship. When there is no void, there is no reason for an affair. By no void, I mean no serious void. Every person and relationship will be imperfect, but good relationships have two people who over look the minor imperfections.
Take care,
Troy
2007-03-08 04:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK don't think so because why are you having an affair and your happily married and living happily. Not unless your a swinger. But it comes down to one question? " WHy have an affair, if your happily married?" Guess someone doesn't know the difference.
2007-03-08 04:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if you're happily married there is no need for you to have an affair. Even if you're not happily married, having an affair is wrong, it's a violation of everything a marriage should stand for. You should never divide yourself between 2 people like that. It will bring nothing but sadness and misery for everyone involved.
2007-03-08 04:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe is possible. Most likely she doesn't love the other guy she finds him attractive and wants an adventure. But I don't believe she stops loving her husband or means to hurt him in any way. Hope this helps. By the way to you know how to retrieve deleted e-mail from yahoo trash. I need extremely important information that was deleted from trash. Is 2007, there must be some way to get it back. If you don't know is ok, but if someone else know I'd like to know. Thank you
2007-03-08 04:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by prima J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend is in this situation. It's actually pretty sad. She thinks she and this other guy would be perfect together, but they are both married, and do not want to get divorced, and they do love their spouses. However, my friend has stopped the affair and said she wants to focus on her husband and try to love him as much as she does the other guy. They are actually doing quite well now.
2007-03-08 04:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-17 11:10:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. She obviously does not love her husband the way that is necessary to have a successful marriage. She does not respect him if she can have an affair. It is very unfair to her husband and she should divorce him and allow him a chance with someone who really loves him.
2007-03-08 04:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by girldog66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No she can't. This special sort of love is unique. She may like many people but can love only one. With extreme effort it may be possible to keep shifting her focal point of love from one person to another while keeping a good relationship with every one, but its always unstable. She can perform for long, like a juggler with his balls. Ultimatly it has to fall. And that's when she will realise that a bird in hand is worth more than two in the tree.
2007-03-08 05:33:35 · answer #11 · answered by Ized 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋