Do woman actually punish them selves for being mad at their man?

Question

My bf and i have had endless amounts of conversations on how his ex girlfriends would do horriable nasty things to him. When they would get mad at him they would stop talking to him and ignore him also stop the passion in the bedroom they would treat him like crap when his family was around. I would NEVER in my life do that. When im mad at him i call him on it and tell him why i dont like what he said or did or didnt say or do or whatever. and i would NEVER stop the passion in the bedroom Why would i punish myself for his stupidity lol do woman actually do that?? Disconnect from there men just because they are upset. why do you/they deprive you/themselves for being upset with you/her man???? i just dont understand because i myself wouldnt do that

In regards to LEANNE's comment
I am NOT comparing myself to his ex's im just saying that they have done this and i have herd many many MANY MANY MEN complain that their wife stop having sexual relations with him due to an agurment or even little things like being mad the guy stop talking to the guy and i find it werid that woman do that... Im not use to that at all so SORRY if i offended you leanne holy cow...

Answer 1

The world needs more people like you.

Answer 2

Well I belive that some women find power in that. When men make you mad, but you don't do anything about it, it makes them think that they can **** u off real bad and you won't stop givin him what he wants. Most women stand up for that, even if we have to stop the pleasure as well. Because men think that they have so much power over us and this is our way of showing that we have power over them as well. Take away the only thing you can and they'll learn soon enough.

Answer 3

I have a question for you, Why do you compare yourself your man's ex's? That's just plain creepy! And on a futher note because you don't do this or that is really irelevant to my life because I live it how I see fit! Not what his ex's have done in the past! Grow up & live your own way !

Answer 4

Its called being punished...Whe someone does csomething wrong you take away something they like until they understand what they did wrong...Weren't you ever a kid and had something taken away because you were treating it right. Treat you woman right and there will be no problems on "holding out" on your spouse.

Answer 5

I understand the shutting off and not talking to them but just until i calm down so i don't say something I will regret and my husband knows that if i stop talking in an argument its because I'm pissed but don't wan tot say something that will hurt him or our relationship. then when i calm down we talk about it. but i would never cut him off form the other things its just not right

Answer 6

If a woman is upset with her man she may not view him as attractive from an emotional standpoint.

Basically you are saying that no matter how rotten your man is to you, you will always want sex. That doesn't sound too healthy to me.

Answer 7

I know someone who does that. I think it's more of a habbit then being right or wrong. In their minds, it's justified as the right thing to do.

Answer 8

Keep in mind that just because they aren't doing anything with him doesn't necessarily mean they are depriving themselves of any "passion" as you put it.

Answer 9

I admit to punish my husband of no sex if I get pissed at him and not even talk to him for days....Rather than humiliate him infront of everybody....

Answer 10

my wife loves beiging mad at me its the high point of her day... we get along fine but once a day she will start a retarded fight so she can enjoy herself at seeing me frustrated with her its rather odd and anoying