I feel Women w/ women are attractive. Obviously a male opinion. I have friends who actually are from both categories, gay men and women. Im quite scared of homosexuality(homophobic) , but i just dont understand why one is so exponentially much more gross to me. What do you think?
2007-03-08 04:18:54 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's all about perspective. I'm a lesbian and I think that straight sex and gay male sex is gross. However, I don't discriminate because of my orientation. You can't really ask this question without getting many opinions. Obviously as a straight male you like the idea of two women together whereas a moderate straight guy or a gay guy would not. One is gross to you because of your orientation. It's ingrained in you and it's natural to like the idea of one but not the other.
You don't like gay male sex because your orientation is to women. Think of it like this, two wrongs don't make a right and two rights are just great. If you love broccoli but hate carrots then you would love to have two pieces of broccoli and would hate and still be disgusted by two carrots. Your orientation would be to broccli... see the connection?
Lastly, don't take this the wrong way but greed is a personality trait more common in men. This is why straight men (and gay men) think highly of multiple partners where as women are more monogamous. That is why straight men like the idea of two women and straight women don't really concern themselves with having two men.
In the end, the best think you can do is just accept that some people are the way you are and go in search of the ones that will be agreeable to what your interests are.
2007-03-08 05:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree, however, to each their own. I would rather watch two women than two men, but I know women who would say the opposite.
Its gross to you, because your not gay. Your not atracted to that, so it will turn you off. Nothing wrong with it.
I am guessing, but to gay men and women, they might find male on female gross.
I have to ask, why are you scared if the whole homosexuality thing? I doubt gay guys will find you attractive anyhow, so its not like they will come up to you and hit on you. Even if they do, you can just tell them your not interested. I really doubt you will get gang raped by a homosexual. It will be someone more deranged than that.
2007-03-08 04:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by George P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you sound like a normal heterosexual male. There are many contributing factors. Sodomy is somewhat an act requiring one man to dominate and the other to be submissive. The majority of men don't feel the urge to be dominated, rather the opposite. You may find anal sex gross. That is where the poo comes out, after all. You like women and more= better. The only plausible way to have two or more women, and not have a chaotic jealous scene, is to get bi women who like each other. Biologically, one man must have many women to produce the largest amount of offspring. Otherwise, I don't know what repulses you.
2007-03-08 04:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tink 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alot of straight men are for some reason threatened by two men having sex. Maybe it's some kind of threat to their "masculinity". I'm a straight woman and I find watching two hot guys getting it on to be very erotic. I don't find two women together to be "gross" I'm just completely indifferent to it. I don't know if they're insecure but alot of straight guys seem to be paranoid about gay male sexuality.
2007-03-08 19:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your a hetero, homophobe,,it kinda goes without saying why you dont like it..but as a gay man, I think heterosex is gross, i mean exponentially much more gross
2007-03-08 05:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think part of it is the way your culture raised you. Men are taught ot be masculine and strong and not show their emotions. It hasn't changed a whole lot for men. Women, however, lost that stigma during the women's movement. Women are more free to be themselves in our society thatn men are. I think that is why it's harder for gay men to be accepted than lesbian women are. Male culture still does not accept differences.
2007-03-08 04:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kharm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gregory hit the nail on the head.
I would go so far as to note: The idea of being with a woman gives me shivers down my spine, so it's just as gross to me as my having sex with my man would be to you.
As for being homophobic, what exactly are you afraid of? We aren't going to attack you or force you to do anything.
2007-03-08 04:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its all a required taste!
2007-03-08 07:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by sfcastrolionmark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women taste better than men!
2007-03-08 04:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by brian_holinsworth1 2 · 4⤊ 4⤋
General rule:
If you are "into it", it's not gross.
If you are not "into it", it's gross.
2007-03-08 04:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋