I havent seen a guy for 7 monthes and he all of a sudden came back into my life and seems to be trying to start converstaion with me but i keep shutting him out because last time i saw him things were not so good between us. What should i do? What would YOU do? Should i talk to him and forget the past????
The past was simply people telling him i hated him even tho i loved him, and vise-versa but im afraid to get close to him a little. i dont know im sorry i am confusing.
2007-03-08 04:13:49 · 20 answers · asked by BabyPosh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
obvioulsy he wants to make amends, if he is a nice person and you still like who he is, then i would talk to him. who cares what everyone else thinks. thats the problem right there, most people care too much about what other people say/think. i think you should talk to him, i would. forgive, forget, and love. good luck!
2007-03-08 04:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im kind of in the middle about this.. and first and foremost its how you feel. Do you truly love this guy? or do you only wish to be friends? Now if i had this happend id most likely think of a few reason why i liked the guy and a few reason to why we stopped talking. From what i got out of your question you stopped talking b/c of gossip. So it prolly wouldnt hurt to just talk and become friends possibly and if you find things arent working then cut off the convo. However if there is other issues beside gossip in the past you may not want to try anything thing and forget the guy and find a new one/
2007-03-08 04:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by crazy_elf_220 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how you truly feel about him. Do you still care about him? Do you still want to be with him? If you know in your heart that you don't want to risk going through the same thing again then don't do it. Trust yourself. I mean, does he seem like he changed or has he tried to apologize for what happened in the past? It was 7 months ago, but usually you know if it's something worth taking the risk again. Talking to himi can not hurt anything so, yeah you can start there then if you're not comfortable with anything more involved than that then leave it where it is. This way you don't get hurt. Good luck.
2007-03-08 04:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it would depend on why you haven't seen him for 7 months. That's really not all that long, when you think about it. If he did something that hurt you, and you cannot trust him again, then I would steer clear of him. But if what happened between the 2 of you is over and done with, I'd say let bygones be bygones, and see what happens with him. You never know.
2007-03-08 04:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him another chance. Everyone deserves at least one chance. Take it slow and watch for the things that happened in the past to come back. If they dont, then good job, if they do, move on. Tell him exactly how you feel
2007-03-08 04:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by brandi_mrrw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I depends on what the past is. If it's something you think you can get over and accept, and you feel that you want to give it another try -- do it.
But if it's something you don't think you can get passed (for example, cheating or other trust-realted things are something I couldn't get passed), then move on. It's just setting yourself up for heartache if you can't go at it with a clean slate.
2007-03-08 04:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by doggiemom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he hopes to accomplish be suddenly reappearing in your life. Maybe he's learned he trusted the wrong people and wants another chance. If that's the case, you just have to decide if he's worth it. Maybe he's just confused and doesn't know exactly how things went wrong. If he hasn't figured it out by now, he really needs to just forget it and move on.
2007-03-08 04:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, talk to him. But do not show much interest in dating. You can still be friends. But if you see something that you do not like in him you can end the friendship. If he is making an attempt, maybe he has changed. It is worth a shot.
2007-03-08 04:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by semiphez1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for him I would start talking to him again and just take it slow. And just make sure that you let him know how you have been feeling and how much he has hurt you. Good luck !
2007-03-08 04:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i think the past is a bad thing but you shoudl let it go. just try to talk to him and see how it goes and from there take it slow. guys are not always *** holes and they do have a portion of a heart but just try and give it another chance
2007-03-08 04:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋