my hubby's ex girlfriend from chilhood passed away on saturday and he was with this girl when he as younger but a big part of his life when he was getting into truble and stuff he even talked to her befor we got together that was about 5 years ageo`~He did not talk to her or anything yes they seen other people they where dating for about 3 years on and off and when he first moved to my area i did not know him so.. Yea but when he got to go back with his family to a park she meat him there and there where pic ofthem kissing (so as in everytime hewent back they end up together kissing/hugging and so on if they where not with anyone) But this was all befor me //Once he meet me he told her he was with someone and has feeling for me and he was going to chill with me for a lil well 4 year went by and we got married in june.Now it's almost 5 years together and we started to hang out with his frinds back home and his friend call the other night to say this girl had die over in the army.
2007-03-08 04:12:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and the vewing is this saturday
and he wants me to go , with him and his firends i would feel so strangs should i go or no?
2007-03-08 04:14:05 · update #1
yes.. but the thing is i feel bad if it was not for me they would betogether and she would be here now`
2007-03-08 04:23:54 · update #2
I feel her family AND Friends will feel the same way and look at me like that .
2007-03-08 04:25:03 · update #3
I think you should go to support your husband. Just because he wants to attend this girls funeral in no way diminishes the love he has for you. She's a part of his past, you are his present and his future. But he needs to say goodbye to her, and you need to be there as a support to him while he does so. This is one of those times in marriage where you definitely put your spouses needs ahead of your own.
2007-03-08 04:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it would mean that much to your husband, then go. She was an old friend and died while in the military. It sounds like he got over any romantic feelings for her as soon as he met you so it's probably more about respecting what she gave up (her life) to serve her country. And, even though things did not work out with her, she did help him into being the person he is today. Think about it.
2007-03-08 04:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question then? It's only fair that he go to the funeral if he can and you should be there to support him, and just know that he chose to marry you and not her and that must mean something! Just be there for him and let him know how much you love him is all I can say!
2007-03-08 04:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by tristeyloca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ,GO AND BE SUPPORTIVE OF YOUR HUSBAND AND HIS GRIEF,SHOW HIM THAT IT IS BECAUSE YOU REALLY DO LOVE HIM THAT YOU ARE THEIR FOR HIM,NO MATTER WHAT.P.S DO NOT GET JEALOUS OF WHAT YOU MIGHT ENCOUNTER WHILE THERE.BE THERE FOR THE RIGHT REASONS.HOPEFULLY YOU CAN SHOW HIM THAT YOU CAN BE STRONG AND BE A GOOD EXAMPLE OF WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT.
2007-03-08 04:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by FRIEND 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
supply up stereotyping each and every physique from the south, it somewhat is idiotic! i'm from the south and no person says "dowhat" (What area of the south did you hear this from? I guess it replaced into annoying as hell, however!)
2016-10-17 21:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by ramayo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In similiar situation, if my wife was asked to go, would hope
she would honor my wishes.
2007-03-08 04:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen shes R.I.P....GOD BLESS her and died in the army...your alive with him in a free country, this shouldnt be a question....dont u want 2 b there for your husband..? and you rambled on alot up there.....im ashamed at you
2007-03-08 04:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by Im the lost treasure never found 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go... if your childhood friend past away would you want to go alone..... doesnt matter if it was an ex.. im sure u never forgot your first love...
2007-03-08 04:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants you to go then you should and support him. i mean you would want him to come too if you were in his position.
2007-03-08 04:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think yoiu should go and support your husband.
2007-03-08 04:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by NewMommy!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋