You're Not Happy Where You Are............?

Question

Let's say you arent happy where you are in your life, constantly fighting with your partner for something more than disrespect. You meet some one feel that immediate connection, like you have known this person for your entire life. You're comfortable, they make you smile and feel like a million bucks. But you still have a partner at home, so nothing goes any further than talking. What do you do? Do you stop talking to this person or ask the partner to leave? No feelings at home other than anger and hurt, where do you go what do you do. Take a chance ???

Answer 1

never give up happiness. if you aren't happy and you know you will be with this new person, then go for it. you and your partner both deserve to be happy, and if you already found your soulmate in this new person, realize that your partner also has someone out there to be happy with. people make mistakes. take the chance.

Answer 2

In your current situation you haven't cheated on your spouse, but if you continue your course you will succumb to temptation due to a lack of love in your marriage. Keep in mind that you are in a very vulnerable state right now. This person that you are interested has shown you a kinder gentler side that appeals to you. You want to make sure that what you are feeling isn't just due to getting attention you lack at home. Step back a bit from this new love interest. Remember that marriage isn't supposed to be rosy all the time and it takes two people to argue. You must have married your husband for some reason. Try to discover what the real problem is at home before making a mistake that many young couples do and add infidelity to the other problems that they have. If you can't fix the problems at home then get divorced before pursuing someone else. It's the way you would want to be treated if the roles were reversed.

Answer 3

If you are finding happiness elsewhere, then there is something missing in your marriage. Find out what that something is before you give up on your commitment. Just remember, this other guy may make you feel like a million now, but once you get comfortable in that relationship, it will be the same thing. You can't run from your problems, so fix them and give your marriage an honest chance. If it still doesn't work, then you know you tried.

Answer 4

I'm sure there was a time when your partner made you feel like a million bucks. So what happens when this new person gets settled in with you, will you again start to feel you aren't happy where you are in life again. Make yourself a better person & know who you are before you try & know someone else & expect them to know you.

Answer 5

I think you watch too many movies and believe they are real.


You can't know somebody immediately. You can be attracted to somebody immediately if you aren't that interested in your partner, but it's all about your ego and your fantasies about what another person can be and not what they are.

Your relationship is a seperate issue. You sound kind of immature to me. Before I started reading questions here, I thought more people understood this stuff.

Answer 6

Don't walk a way from the guy that makes you feel like a million. I know exactly where your at. Keep him close. You do though have to decide what you want. You can;t keep both guys. Make sure the other knows about your home life. You have to be open about it. But also make sure he knows how he makes you feel inside. The way it sounds though, you should move on to better things in life. Being unhappy creates ugly people. There is nothing better than feelling alive and free. You deserve it.

Answer 7

first get divorced then take that chance

Answer 8

if your not happy... LEAVE... dont cheat.... dont leave because u have someone lined up already... u leave because your not happy....