lately i keep on having this urge to try something out that i have never done i dont' know if its just a feeling or what im so confused because i know i love doing things with my boyfriend but ever since i started watching this show called the L word ive been wanting do something else with another girl what do i do heeeeellllllpppppp!!!!!!
2007-03-08 04:08:00 · 13 answers · asked by *LaTiNa_BoNiTa* 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
OK. First of all, relax, you are freaking me out. Second, curiosity is a natural part of life, it doesn't mean that you are a lesbian or even bisexual. If you are not going to rest easy until you try something, then try it already. Just make sure that you are not doing anything that will hurt your boyfriend's feelings or the feelings of the person you want to try new things with. Be honest with everyone including yourself about what your intentions are and everything will be OK. And quit stressing out, not gonna find a girl that way. ;)
2007-03-08 04:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girlfriend invited over a girlfriend to suprise me for my birthday present ,it floored me, excuse the pun, I really didn't know what to do, so it's a suprise as enjoyable as that, does need to be forewarned and talked about and then it could the most unforgetable expierence and memory of your life
Or do you want this to be between just two
2007-03-08 12:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) curiosity= normal
2.) Homosexuality/bisexuality= normal, even for animals (see bonobos or Pygmy Chimp)
3.) What's wrong, risky, dirty, forbidden, or new is hot. That's just the rule.
Don't worry. Explore it, and you'll find out if it's just a curiosity or not. Your boyfriend won't mind.
2007-03-08 04:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that nobody can stop you from doing anything, so I'm not the person to tell you not to do it..Yes ....I'm not the person to tell you to pray in chirch after you've done it...
It realy depends on YOU .Only you can be shure of your body...You can't be bisexual..The state of any body can be gay or straight...If you're able to say to yourself that from nowon you'll ONLY be attractet to girls it's a statement that is true for your Body to accept it and to dislike boys at the same time....
Be true to yourself :)
2007-03-08 04:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by Creep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound just like me!!!! I was curious, disappointed in men, and started watching the LWORD and have been addicted ever since!!! To the show and my new lover!!!!! Best thing for you to do is follow your heart and listen to your soul.... GOOD LUCK
2007-03-08 07:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by MS.MOCHA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're bi. Just accept your desires and go on with your life. If you're in a monogamous relationship, then don't act on your same-sex desires. If he's open to you fooling around then you could experiment. If you two break up, then don't limit your options to only one sex if you're attracted to both.
2007-03-08 04:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your man's opinion on it. Ask him what he thinks you should do. If you Love him, then you want to make sure to wait to pursue these fantasies until you know he is okay w/ it.
2007-03-08 04:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're curious, let your mind wander. You may find you're attracted to women. There's nothing wrong with it.
2007-03-08 04:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kharm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow, nothing wrong with that; we are humans and therefore have individual tastes
2007-03-08 04:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋