my friend is 14 and has sex with 3 guys thats hella bad. but its a long story so some parts may not make sence. but she and her sister were fighting and the sister told her parents about 2 guys and my friend goes off and says well i got plan b for it and starts running her mouth trying to get her out of trouble but its only going to get into worse. and now shes getting pissy with me because she mad because i told her that she could have kept her mouth closed and been save. the thing is her sister didnt know for sure or not about 1 of the guys she had sex with.
is 3 guys bad for 14?
is 2?
2007-03-08 03:58:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she used a condom all time sbut it broke 3/5 of the times and i first a second guy were 15 and the 3rd is almost 17
2007-03-08 04:06:22 · update #1
she is too young to be having sex.....
2007-03-12 06:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know its wrong, that is why you asked the question. Her parents should know, they need to protect her from herself. 14 is too young for a girl to be having sex much less with multiple partners. It is not safe out there, she could get pregnant and worse get a desease. It can and will happen if she continues thhis route. The condoms break obviously they are not enough protection.
Now thinking of you, if you are a true friend you need to voice your opinion even if it is to tell on her. In the end you need to live with your actions. If you could have saved her you will feel bad. If you do tell her parents or confront her be prepared to be the badguy. Dee de dees' dont get it right away. She will realize you are right eventually. Now it is up to you when you look at yourself, did you do right by your friend.
I am a father of a 6 yr old. I can see myself tearing the guy into pieces, it is illegal for an underage child for a reason. 1. they dont know better. 2 they are not ready for the responsibility 3 they would be stuck with this decision for the rest of their lives and likely the boy wont stand by her.
She definitely needs help.
2007-03-15 05:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sanj M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I had sex at fourteen to a 24 year old, I am now 24. . . . I regret it so much and it was the biggest mistake of my life. 3 is too young for 14. Sex was created for married couples. There is so much emotion behind sex, that a fourteen year old can't comprehend the emotions.no matter how mature she thinks she is. I know from experience It's better that her parents are aware of the situation now because 3 can turn into 30. Just continue to be her friend and love her let her be mad at you. You didn't do anything wrong.
2007-03-15 09:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by steppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One guy is bad for a 14 - year old. Thank God that her sister told her parents. You know now that this kid is so immature that she got mad at you for speaking the truth to her. What does that say about the level of maturity she has in handling her sex life?
So now her parents have been exposed to her escapades. They know her, now they know what is going on. Let's see if she can be saved from being an immature, nutball mom at the ripe old age of 14. First, let her parents recover from the shock....
2007-03-14 06:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by kathyw 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
14 year old should not be thinking about sex. I have a 14 year old niece and she is the same way as your friend. She's not a bad girl . But these boys she sleeping with don't care about her they just wanted what they got. Tell your friend like I tell my niece wait for the right guy and the right time it will come don't rush it. When it happens with the right person then it will be great.
2007-03-16 02:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by mistywoods27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 is bad for any age. Even 1 is bad for 14. If she thinks plan B is always the answer she is being an idiot. Condoms are not reliable by themselves all the time. Plan B is a secondary option, NOT a form of birthcontrol, and if she continues this behavior she needs to go to planned parenthood and get on birthcontrol and still use condoms.
She is irresponsible and doesn't seem to respect herself. I hope her parents find means to help her straighten out. It is not wise to sleep around at any age.
True respect for yourself is waiting for someone you really care about to enter your life before entering your bed.
2007-03-08 04:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow 14 is young for 3 partners. if she is going to continue having sex, she needs to learn how to put a condom on better because breaking 3 out of 5 times are really bad odds- she is probably doing it wrong.
2007-03-16 02:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 is bad for age 14
2007-03-08 04:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of that snoozing with adult males at 14 is a splash youthful, yet there may well be something i don't be attentive to approximately, and don't pick to choose persons i've got heard in basic terms one fact approximately.
2016-11-23 15:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really sad that a 14 year old has had sex with anyone!! Way too young!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would stay out of it as much as you can. I would be appalled if my daughter who is 14 had sex. So so sad
2007-03-15 14:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by hopetohelpyou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is bad... but if she is ready then fair enough.. but in the UK it is illegal to have sex if youre under 16, so if the police find out, she and her sleeping parters are ******. Lets just hope she wont be another pregnant teenager..
2007-03-16 00:19:29 · answer #11 · answered by Cheerios17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋