I did something with my best friend, and I actually liked it so we did it again the next day! Now I'm ready to break up with my boyfriend BC I think I like girls now. Will god send me to hell for this, Is it a sin to be gay?
2007-03-08 03:52:55 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It is a sin, but God is forgiving
2007-03-08 03:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 2⤊ 5⤋
No you will not go to hell. That is just something backstabbing Christians believe. It is natural to experiment. I don't think its so much you just like girls now, its more or less a phase I think. Give it time. Maybe you should just break up with your boyfriend for now though until you figure out who you are. I believe truly, and I don't mean to get spiritual on ya, but I think its because your soul has been many sexes before. You have not always been a girl. You are an entity in a girls body. Thats how they explain why people sometimes feel like they are in the wrong body or born in the wrong body. I think you however are just experimenting and thats ok. Oh and I also think that whatever path you choose in this life is how it is suppose to be, gay or not. You are not wrong for it. There is not hell either, it is just a lower spiritual level so you may end up having to spend time there in the afterlife until you decide to come back to earth to live again. Good luck! Just my opinions and beliefs by the way.
2007-03-08 04:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by dinkle_fritz81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to candy coat this for you ... but ...
You better cut that out now! Yes, absolutely it's a sin. You've just set your ship on course for a screwed up life. You better get on the right track.
You weren't designed to have sex with women. Look at your anatomy. Isn't it obvious enough?
What you liked was the thought of doing something forbidden, that made you feel special.
What you also liked was the idea of having a shared experience with your best friend.
And third, what you liked were the sensations of sex.
That doesn't mean you're gay or bi or anything. If you sit around thinking about getting cancer or into a car wreck, what do you think will happen? Sit around picturing yourself having sex with a female will pull you towards doing that.
Cut that nonsense out. If you have to wonder ... if you have to ask ... you already know it's wrong deep inside.
2007-03-08 04:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a sin to be gay. This is the 21st Century. All people are equal. My theory is that if you are a good person, kind to others and responsible in your life then any God must surely reward you. What possible difference can it make if you are attractred to someone the same sex as you?
If you are attracted to girls, then enjoy it. Get a girlfriend, share your life, experiences, body and soul with her. If someone is so narrow minded as to have more respect for a book that is a few thousand years old than for you, then it's their loss.
Enjoy life, whatever it is for you!
2007-03-08 04:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking in terms of literal teaching, nothing that I can see forbids female homosexuality in the Bible, only that of males. Interestingly, Queen Victoria did a similar thing, she only outlawed male homosexuality on the basis that she didn't believe lesbian relationships actually happened. If your body is telling you one thing, then why the hell should it be the wrong thing? You've got to remember that many of the old teachings in Christianity were about suppression and control of the people, and it's my belief that if you can struggle for your actions, yet truly forgive yourself, then surely God does? Have fun, and don't let anything hold you back. also, if ever you get into exhibitionism and need a camera man..... :P
2007-03-08 04:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no christian agreement on whether it's a sin or not. The bible is interpreted many different ways, including on this subject. So, according to some you can go to hell for that. To others, they'd say you won't. I will say it is possible to be gay and christian.
2007-03-08 04:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't break up with your boyfriend and don't ruin the friendship with your female friend. That's just my tuppence worth.
You won't go to hell for having feelings for and acting on them with ANYBODY. Love is love. Take your time in discovering whether you really like girls. Maybe you'll only ever like your friend.
2007-03-08 03:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is really loving and won't send you to hell for that. Try to stop it if you know it's wrong but if you can't help it...well, try to make some good out of it..
2007-03-08 04:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by <Xariel the Stray> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homosexuality is not a sin. Even God had a homosexual encounter. He got a bone from Adam and along came woman.
2007-03-08 03:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by aurorase 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friends, they'll be there for you. If God is love, he won't send you to hell for trying to figure out who you are, right? He doesn't make mistakes: He made you just who you are. Good luck, hon!
2007-03-08 11:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by Emily H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not a sin. There is no hell. Give yourself a bit of time to explore and decide.
2007-03-08 03:57:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋