how could u handle this situation?

Question

i met guy for 3 times already. i think he likes me. he invited me for coffee and movies sometimes.
last time, i called him to invite him a coffee, he let me know he just arrived from business trip and got many things to do thus he couldnt join the date. he proposed next weekend and he would confirm it later.
what should i do:
if he wont contact me again, i would move on. OR ..... ???
besides, during the week, he didnt call me or send text messages for asking me "how are u". why is that? Is he serious?

Answer 1

Wait and see if he contacts you to confirm for next weekend. If he doesn't then move on - you have better things to do with your time.

Answer 2

Well get you a good book read it and if he doesn't text you or call you in about 8 weeks just move on. What! hey if he was a good man he would text you call you or even send you a letter or note telling you what's he doing that he is so busy in doing. But for him to have you as an appointment, hey if your into that well go luck. Just think in the future if your married to him and you have to amke an appointment everytime yuo need to talk, chat, or have sex with him. Just move on and find a guy who wants to be with you all the time, calls you and texts you and treats you like the beautiful woman that you are, not an appointment.

Answer 3

You invited him; he declined and suggested he contact you later. If he doesn't contact you - he is NOT interested. Believe me; he will call if he really wants to go out with you. If he doesn't call and ask you out - it was just a "nice" way of him to let you know he doesn't want to see you again. Yes, you should move on if you don't hear from him.

I wouldn't be too worried about him not sending you text messages every day; not all people have time for this stuff. If he calls to invite you out, you will know that he is interested in seeing you. Meanwhile, don't fret... You can always find someone else if this doesn't work out.

Answer 4

I think that you should just go on with your everyday life and not let him interrupt your thoughts or anything else. You have only known him for three days if he is interested then he will stay in touch with you if he isn't then you shouldn't give him a second thought. There are many many more fish in the sea.
Good Luck.

Answer 5

wait and let him contact you, if he doesn't then forget it and move on.
I knew a guy like that once and I might hear from him once a week, then a month, then 3 months later he texted me to say hi and how you been.
I just decided that it wasn't the kind of relationship I was looking for.

Answer 6

I don't know why you are stressing over this. Why is it that anytime someone can't accept an invitation you (women on Y!A in general) assume that he must be having sex with someone else?

He's got a lot of work to get done. He suggested you could meet on the weekend. Let him get his work done.

Answer 7

Do you have to be serious after 3 dates? Take it slow, youll learn more about each other if you continue to have your own lives as well. Why be joined at the hip at 3 outings?

Answer 8

Wait and see what happens. If he does not call you to confirm the date, you just move on with your life.

Answer 9

I wouldn't spend any more time thinking about it. If he doesn't contact you again, just assume that he's no longer interested and move on. If he wanted to contact you or make plans, he would have by now. He isn't serious.

Answer 10

If you were that interested in him you'd already know what type of employ he's in that would cause him to miss out on the date. If so, wait. But if not, and as you are now in doubt to begin with, play it cool and don't sweat it. What's the rush? You're only friends, remember?