This chick's birthday is tomorrow and she's asking me, (more like begging... cause I'm sooo important), to come out with her... I really do need to get out and do something - I live on a military base overseas and from my experience it's hard to be choosy with friends over here.
Here's why I probably shouldn't go out with HER... but I really do need to get out... this is getting pathetic... she is moving back home in a couple of weeks.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhSU_psqO2D2cjleooDQ6wLty6IX?qid=20070301183533AAW4BOJ
Well I think I've answered my own question after reviewing my previous question. I really am desperate to just cut loose and get d-runk. Blah, blah, blah... anyone else this lame. :)
2007-03-08 03:32:45 · 8 answers · asked by THATgirl 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yep, and ive had fun. do you know if her mental stability is alright? is she on heroin or crack? when she walks in a room, do guys pull numbers and wait their turn? does she get drunk and all of a sudden start hitting on girls?does she try to bring other women home for her husband? does she listen to country music or the eagles?
if the answer to those questions are no, then i say go ahead, you should brobably get out, and you will probably have fun.
great new pic by the way. you have always been pretty. seeee ya!
2007-03-08 15:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by ilikethickchix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You warned your buddy. She replaced into used to spending the night with him and 'stuff'. at first, you're to no longer blame in any respect. They have been the two interior a similar mattress - she had allowed previous favours and, as a woman, i myself have project wth females that declare rape whilst they're actual greatest adult males on. As a woman I also have a voice and could say stop - I even have achieved! maybe your buddy did? adult males at the instant are not continuously to blame!
2016-11-23 15:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by sanda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go out and have a nice time, just use her birthday as an excuse. You don't have to act like her or anything like that. If you really feel that just being in her presence (guilty by association) is not in your best interest, don't go. Why can't you do something alone, or with some other friends. Go bowling, see a movie, volunteer at the local animal shelter or hospital in your spare time. Good luck to you and God Bless. P.S. Thank you for serving your country, your service IS appreciated!
2007-03-08 04:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn the drama! I also am a military wife but do not live in the military housing. My husbands cousin is in the Navy and his wife calls me every Friday to go over to hang out, to which I feel obligated to do because its family. I don't like going over there ALL THE TIME becuase they live in Navy housing and have the same kind of drama going on there....I just wonder what they say about me since I am usu. the first to leave.
2007-03-08 03:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by 1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I hate to admit it, but I have gone out (for various reasons, in various situations) with people who I didn't really consider my friends.
You are in a very unique position, so it's up to you what you decide, but if you do go out (to save your sanity) with her, I would recommend you go where there are lots of people and you do something that doesn't require you to just sit and talk to her - that could get way too uncomfortable. Maybe go to a popular local club and sit at the bar where you can interract with other people (maybe you'll meet someone who will be a real friend), or go to a comedy club or movie, where you don't have to talk at all!
Good luck, and thank your husband for his service to our country!
2007-03-08 03:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by Pretending To Work 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend that wasn't a friend? No, I don't believe I ever did that just for the sake of going out.
2007-03-08 03:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus .... if you are worried that she will hurt the child i wouldnt give the child back ....i would call the police .....
If you actully believe that she would hurt the child.... you have to let them know....
Although if a neighbour had my child in thier flat and refused to give the child to me ....i would have no problem in killing that neighbour....and taking my child.....
what would you do if it was your child....?
2007-03-08 03:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah me i guess
2007-03-08 03:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by barroom_babyblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋