We had a set appointment today at 9:00 and he has know about it and was going to go. This morning he said he had to go to work because it was very important...
I get it and told him to go ahead and go.
He said to reschedule the appointment for the latest time today and I can't get a hold of the lady. Should I still go to the apt. by myself today and reschedule our apt. for another day? I usually see her twice a week anyway and I really feel like talking to her...I'm very unhappy and need answers...I'm tried of being the one to work on our relationship and I feel like he blew me off today. Should I go today or would that be bad???
2007-03-08 03:30:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would suggest you go, and talk to her about it. She can give you the best solution, but yes, definitely go.
2007-03-08 03:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go ahead and keep the appointment, and schedule the next available appointment for you and your husband.
Your husband may or may not have a legitimate reason for not going, but you should continue to go regardless. Your therapist will give you tools on how to deal with this situation. Regardless of the outcome of your marriage, you need to go so you can navigate this difficult time in your life.
Good luck to you.
2007-03-08 03:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yse, go to the appointment and reschedule for later on in the day for a seperate one with your husband
2007-03-08 03:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you have an appointment, do what is best for YOU and go! You said you would like to talk with her anyway.
I hope your husband makes it to the next scheduled appointment. good luck with everything!
2007-03-08 03:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely go to the appointment without him!!!
You send a message to your husband by going anyways.
2007-03-08 03:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you got problems and you need to work them out with or without him, and make husband know that it's now or never and if it's never then theres a divorce at the end of tunnel.
2007-03-08 03:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go, let the therapist know what's going on with your hubby and work, and reschedule like he asked. If he doesn't show next time, you know there's a problem.
2007-03-08 03:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by no1bucsfan26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, go today and talk to your counselor. That's what she's there for. Schedule another appointment with him when you get to the office.
2007-03-08 03:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go by myself..I go to counseling without my husband and with my husband. Sometime you get to see things differently when you are alone.
2007-03-08 03:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound as if going today would be beneficial, so go ahead and see the counselor.
2007-03-08 03:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and go to the appt today and talk to her and see if she can see both of you later on today and if so call your husband and tell him the time.
2007-03-08 03:34:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋