me and my husband have a good sex life but it is getting a little boring. I need ways to spice it up a bit.
2007-03-08 03:04:26 · 14 answers · asked by schie2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
me and my husband have a good sex life, but it is getting alittle boring. we will try anything, and anywhere but it just seems that it ant happening much anymore. i know that we have 2 kids, but i thought are sex life would get better the older the kids got. but it has not happened yet.
2007-03-08 03:18:20 · update #1
just go back to planing a date once a month , like you too did way back when,, get all dressed up for each other and let things happen good luck
2007-03-08 03:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may sound a bit drastic but cbt and bondage both ways can really add new dimensions to ones sex life. Both you and he can try being dominate.My girlfriend didn't think she could be dominate and now at times I'm not only extremely turned on but a little scared. I didn't think I could and you should see the way I dominate my girl.The most important thing to do is to keep it fun and natural. On somedays we still make love like the first time, passionate and intense.
2007-03-08 03:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by joshandandreabean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get started once again is to go for a romantic vacation. just the two of you on a beach and bringing the joy back into ur life. don't think of sex but the happy days you have shared and good sex would come automatically.
2007-03-08 03:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely try toys, porn and liquor. I'm not trying to sound like a perv either. The toys will help with mental kinkiness, the porn helps with the arousal and the beverage helps to relax you both and let you take in new experiences.
2007-03-08 05:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can come over and give you some pointers.kidding try foreplay, lingere, messages, toys dont forget some for him too. rent soft core porn and try to do the stuff they do. different rooms or furniture. spring is coming soon go out to a park and go at it outside somewhere. role play. call him and say you need your plumbing fixed.
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2016-12-05 10:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by fuents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't the jealous type wear somewhat revealing clothes (not slutty) even in public situations. I know when my wife is "dressed down", especially in the summertime, I am a lot more "motivated" than when she is in a sweatshirt and jogging pants.
2007-03-08 03:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by yourname1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise him with porn, or toys to play with during foreplay.
Wear sexy lingerie and see what happens. These things happen. Just try.
Good Luck!
2007-03-08 03:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share fantasies together... Role playing...
2007-03-08 03:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy roleplay helped us. We get very kinky with Fantasy Roleplay.
2007-03-08 03:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋