Oral Sex..?

Question

My husband has never given me oral sex. We have talked about it, and he does not comment much on the subject. He does say that he will, but never does. I do it, and its okay, because I do it to please him.

What should I do?

Answer 1

shave and douche main thing and stop till hegives u what u want 50 50 right

Answer 2

Well first thing is don't hold sex against him trying to get sex. It just doesn't make since. He may just not be into giving oral sex. Some people aren't. Ask him straight out if that is the reason. He may just feel bad because it turns him off. Would you want him to do it if it really was a turn off for him? If you don't like giving it tell him you both won't do it and move on. There are alot of other wonderful ways to please each other . Explore.. Good Luck

Answer 3

Wow, I really feel bad for you cause that is the most intense pleasure a woman can have, if done properly. I really have nothing to add, the others stated it best. If you don't want to shave totally, at least use trimmers to shave very close. I mean, he doesn't want to floss! (LOL) But yes, take a good bath or shower, put some good smelling stuff on, and just TELL him he will do it. Be the boss, and be demanding. He may even enjoy that part of it.

If all else fails, they have this new sex toy that is shaped like a tongue and actually licks you. I've never tried it, but I did see it at a sex party and it seems like it would work pretty well.

Answer 4

Your husband is a very lucky man! You probably don't know how many married men don't get oral sex. There are many! I know I am one. I have been there on the not receiving end of this. The only thing I can tell you is this creates very much pleasure (on the part of the male, and from my standpoint!). And the only right thing to do here is return the favor, a manly point of view would be to go down 1st! Stop it! If you don't get it then don't give it. Period. He will either come around to your point of view, (that is if he really likes oral sex) or do without personally. You know it is 50-50 on this don't you? Or do you wanna meet up? I can give and would like to receive as well LOL! Really here don't give it up unless you can get it! Da. Kid!

Answer 5

You have to approach this while you are having sex. Tell him how it turns you on and gently guide him down there. If he refuses then you need to confront him and ask him why he does not want to do it. Some guys no matter how much they love you or how clean you are whatever just can't get into oral sex. Try and see Good Luck!!

Answer 6

Well just wait for him to grasp the situation. Maybe he has never done it before or has been told by everyone that it's nasty to do it. Well you just have to have patientence with him or just come to me and I'll give you all the oral sex you want. HEy just let him go at his own pace, but if he takes to long just cut him off and then he will realize he has too. ALSO you can tell him " If you want to stick it, you have to lick it first"

Answer 7

Best way to make this happen is to follow these steps. First shave your privates (you can leave a small patch but bare is best). Next make sure you use good hygene at all times including douching if needed. Most importantly never make demands that he go down on you, but during foreplay kiss him all over starting from head to thighs. Don't go down on him during this but after you show him how sensual this is ask him to kiss you all over. As he nears your thigh area moan and squirm to show him how much you like him in that area. The more time he spends in that area the more comfortable he will begin to feel there. It can be a slow process but the more he sees how he is revving your motor the more apt he is to make it regular in his foreplay. As he gets more comfortable he will make the next move and if he is like any normal guy he may not ever stop eating at the y. I hope this helps.

Answer 8

Be the initiator, have him pleasure you before you start to pleasure him. You may want to entice him into give you the gratification you desire, so direct him;tell him what feels best. Since it is his first time, he may not appreciate the taste, you may want to enhance things by adding flavor like wine (Champagne is great) or fruit juice (or extracts like vanilla).

If he still balks, then you know he really wants oral sex to be one way.

Answer 9

He needs to be honest with you. Some men just arent into going down on a woman. I cant see why but it does happen. Try holding out on him. Trade oral for oral till he gets with the program. Shaving definately helps.

Answer 10

As long as you maintain your gentials and keep them clean and fresh, your husband should have no issues about oral sex - ESPECIALLY since you give him some already.

I don't see this issue real often, and I tell people that oral sex should be a "quid pro quo" issue; meaning, if you want ~ you give. Period.

Answer 11

Make sure that you shave that area and take a bath or shower right before you ask him. Some men just don't want to do this and I'm lucky that I haven't found one of them yet.