i dont know what the hell is wrong with me im 18 male i thought i was gay for the past couple years but yesterday my friend brought his sister to the house and her and i really clicked for once i actually wanted to talk to her for hours and we started tickling eachother but she left early and i cant wait to see her friday.
but i'm confused because never in my life have i felt the need to be with someone i've always hated dating and realationships and now all of a suden i spend ten minutes with this girl and now i want to be with her should i be happy? or a bit depressed because i dont think she likes me the way i do her.
damnit im a wreck and ive been drunk all week and only 6 hours of sleep
2007-03-08 02:14:26 · 19 answers · asked by Absurdly_insane_13 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thank you. You are a perfect example that homosexuality is learned behavior, and can be reversed.
Good luck, now you know how all of us guys feel around a girl we like. Just don't put too much pressure on her, and you'll do O.K.
2007-03-08 02:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
i say go for it and see how you feel. don't have a sexual relationship with her right away.just remain friends for a little while and see if you still have the same kind of feelings. if you do then give sex a try.but make sure you mentally prepare yourself in case you decide it is not for you. but whatever you choose do not regret it,it is called living and learning.mabey you are a bisexual and are attracted to both sexes. i am bi and i never had a thought of being with a woman until i was 19 and had my 1st experiance. i discovered a whole new side of me that i did not know even exsisted. i am now a very happy bi woman!! good luck sweetie!! :)
2007-03-08 10:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by onecrazymama05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, you are too young to have properly figured out if you are gay or not all based upon how you think you feel you are. if you are having feelings for her, like someone else posted, maybe you are bi. it isn't a choice between being gay or being str8 like those are your only 2 options. there is a very large bi population that many are not aware of because they think there are only the gay or str8 options. until you have had sex with both guys and gals (and not just once) then you will be able to figure out where you stand. my wife and I are both bi as are many of our friends and once we figured that out and stopped trying to figure out "what is wrong with me" our lives have been great.
2007-03-08 11:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by billnrhonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off...Lay off the happy juice. It only adds to your confusion.
Go get her...You are young, you'll figure out which side of the fence you should be on sooner or later. Most important...Make the best of who you are and have fun.
Your "depression"...Welcome to the world of relationships. EVERYONE has those feelings.
2007-03-08 10:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been drunk for the past week, it's probably the alcohol talking. Sober up, take a nap, and see her again. If you feel the same way, then go for it.
2007-03-08 10:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try and limit yourself to a label. If you like her you like her. You can't deny your feelings just because you're supposed to be gay. You're 18, you should have fun and be happy. If you clicked, go for it!!
2007-03-08 10:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Belly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, there is nothing wrong with flirting with the opposite sex when you considering yourself gay. in fact, there is nothing wrong with having a crush on someone either. i have had crushes on men, and trust me, i am far from straight.
you only saw her for 10 mins..see what transpires...but don't limit yourself. if you are sexually attracted to her go for it..but be able to tell the difference!
2007-03-08 11:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by Taken by a Texan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back too the gay lifestyle, you wont regret itt, get over it fast. you think your drunk now wait until you hop in bed with her if you do. and a life of misery. find a hot hung cute boyfriend fast.
2007-03-08 10:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your attracted to men and women than your bisexual.
I'm completely attracted to women, not so much men. But when I'm around a guy who's got a great personality I really fall for him.
2007-03-08 11:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's just a friendship, and u like to talk to her, it's like someone straight who has a guy friend that he likes very much, and always wants to talk to him and meet him. U're a gay only, don't be confused
2007-03-08 10:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by A New Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋