She wants me to lie to planned parent hood and say im 3 months so i could get an abortion. i told her im not about to liee to them because i can feel the baby moving inside and i dont want to hurt my body like that. And i told her that i cant do that because its tooo late but she thinks im making an excuse to keep the baby. what do i do? btw im 16.
2007-03-08 02:02:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You may only be 16 but you are smart enough to know that you can't do that to your baby, don't lie to planned parenthood-they will know that you are lieing and then you've tainted your relationship with them.. tell them the truth, the whole truth, what your mom said to you.. everything.. tell them what you want.. not what everybody else wants you to do and they will go over the options with you.. adoption could make somebody else's dreams come true if you decide that you are not ready for the complete responsiblity that a child brings right now.
2007-03-08 02:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what wrong with your mom.. to ask you get abortion.. it life.. Sorry didn't wanted to be dis respect.. but I think you said 6 month preganant and you got 3 more months to go the have baby.. Cong
She explain to her.. taking care baby is hard but you should doyour best to raise a baby because it life..
I hope your mom would help you out when the baby is here... because you would need a lot help with the baby while you finish your high school. and all...
I do not think it excuse.. Just talk to her make her understand. It ok to be single mom.. and you can mange and now you have to be mature for your age.. and that you have think about your baby first before you do anything else..
And getting adortion can hurt your body very much and sometime if they made bigger mistake then you can not have another baby after an abortion. You never know. You should talk to your mom and someone you trust. and you remember you got three more month to go.. and you be out for the summer and you would have time for your baby..
2007-03-08 10:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by babyg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The doctors would KNOW you are not 3 months along.. do you think they know nothing about what the are doing? You think they let just anyone perform an abortion? If your mother is trying to force you into anything then know she can't by law make you do anything you don't want to do. Call some pregnancy hot lines and find out more. Or you can talk to the people at planed parent hood and they will help you. They are not only about abortion as some people seem to think
2007-03-08 10:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by debcat76135 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, your mom doesn't sound too smart to me. THERE IS NO WAY that you can lie about how far along you are, because they do an ultrasound on you before they would preform an abortion. So that RIGHT there gives you an answer. The only thing I can say is that I'm sorry that you are having a baby at 16! Good Luck to your baby!
2007-03-08 10:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by One Race The Human Race 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
You've already hurt your body by getting pregnant and having a intercourse for who knows for how long at age 16. It's okay to have this baby, but get ready to get a full-time job and sacrifice your freedom and your thoughts of "me first". Because your baby comes first the minute you have this child. And that's where your mother's actions comes from. She wants you to have a normal childhood and enjoy it. She doesn't want you to ruin your life and your child's life by you entering adulthood too soon. You will have a plenty of time, like 30 years, to have a children who is wanted and raised just like other children with parents who can provide for them.
Don't think your mom is unreasonable, she is trying to help you because she loves you. Although lying about how long your pregnancy is not the right thing, you guys should probably think about how you are going to raise this child, or talk to adoption agency to find out what your options are.
2007-03-08 10:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by Pluto 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you can lie. They will test you of course. If you can not keep the baby. There are lots of people looking for babies. It is too late for an a abortion. Sit down and talk with her. If this happened to my daughter, we would find a way together to work in out, It is not the end of the world. At least try. Good Luck to you.
2007-03-08 10:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by deb 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you can not do that. I would go along have the baby and probably give it up for adoption. Your mom is probably worried about her own image of being the mother of a teenager with a baby. Well even though you are only 16 you were old enough to have sex you are old enough to deal with what comes with it and make your own decisions
2007-03-08 10:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by D R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even if you tried lying to Planned Parenthood they would do an ultrasound before performing the abortion and would find out you were too far along. If she makes you go in tell them you don't want the abortion and that she is making you. That will stop that. Good luck
2007-03-08 10:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well...you should have told your mother when you first found out, but even doing what your mother says, they would be able to determine how far along you are. Do you really plan to keep the baby or give it up for adoption? Have you thoroughly thought through all your options?
2007-03-08 10:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people at Planned Parenthood will now that you are farther along than 3 months, look into adoption if you do not want to keep the baby.
2007-03-08 10:06:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋