My sagittarius guy, should i go for him???? last chance??? please help!?

Question

hi all, im a leo japanese girl, was having a long distance relationship with a sagittarius spanish guy whom i met 1 n a half yr ago in japan. We were madly in love even we were apart. he is typical sagittarius.

We lived together in spain last summer. Were great. I returned to Jap in Sep meanwhile he started his new job. Since then he has been busy and confused with his feelings for me once in a while. We met again in Xmas and 07 new year. His confusion was gone and he found tat he really loved me. I came back to Japan in January. Things were good.

After my return, in early Feb he was confused again but he was sure that he didnt wanna lose me; we were planning to meet in Easter. Then, I sent him valentine's gift. A few days later he broke up with me,coz he has lost his love feelings for me, n that he feels guilty that i treat him so nice.

I suggested to meet in Easter. He rejected to meet coz he wants to treat me like friend, but he is afraid that he cant when we meet.

I dont know if i should still go to Spain in Easter to have a last try. As he is so Sagittarius, im afraid that if i dont see him now, things will be settled, he will just catergorize me as a friend, and then he'll never consider a relationship with me again, coz Sag people let things go so easily!

I wonder if his feelings will be back again when we meet, afterall sags are v. passionate people. Can fire and spark arise if we meet again? Maybe his feelings will be back if we have face-to-face contact? However im also worried tat i may look clingy if i insist on meeting. Sags dislike sticky people.... but passion and fire are possible????? if i dont go and check, i'll always keep a hope.


so SHOULD I GO??????????? Is there any sag guys and gals or anyone who knows something about sags can help me?

Answer 1

Well I'm a Sag Gal & I too had a long distance relationship. Mine was a Scorpio. I felt the same way you did & I ended moving on & we classifeid each other as a little more than friends. He did alot of traveling with camp,school, & friends. I told him that I'll always be like a big sister when he needs advice. I moved on after 2 months in '97. I couldn't stand around & wait for him to decide if he loved me or wanted to be with me. We haven't really spoken since the winter of 2004 (2 & a half years ago).
He called me Tuesday night to tell me he loved me & wanted me to move to California with him. I told him I can't because when I gave him the chance to prove hisself he chose his friends. He used school as an excuse (all 6 of them)! My advice to you is take the offer while it still stands plus Sagittarius men are equally sensitive & caring as are the woman. I'm speaking from experience.
His confusion comes from you leaving him for long periods of time. He may feel a slight form of abandonment & being a burden. Since you know he really loves you he will accept you. He's just telling you that to spare you the burden.
The two of you need to move close by this way the relationship can pick up again. Do not let true love pass you by as my scorpio did! Your Sag Guy might not give you another chance if you blow this one!!! I'm in a happy relationship & engaged to be married in 2 years. The scorpio knows that already that's why he' trying to get my attention now!!!! Please be spontaneous & adventureous. That should help your relationship!!
Good Luck!!!!

Answer 2

I am a true sag. If you are truly interested in this guy, then you will have to understand that he gets bored easily. You have to keep on your toes to keep him interested. We are a lot of work. And while the old saying goes, absence makes the heart grow fonder...they weren't talking about a sagittarius. Long distance relationships in general do not work for us. We need that fire, that passion. And if he doesn't get it from you - he will get it. If you can live with that, go. We are also great to be around once you truly catch us:) GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

no, because neither one of you want be able to understand each other.