i've fallen in love with a very close female friend we've always being good together our parents hav given their blessings should we decide to get married. I've told her i fancy her but i'm not getting the response i've being expecting.
she keeps saying there's someone already there but i klnow very well it's not true.
Really confused , don't want to destory the friendship, her mum keeps encouraging me not to give up but she on the other hand isn't showing any positive sign
do i give up & keep the friendship going or continue pursuing her
2007-03-08 01:29:24 · 9 answers · asked by KOOL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep the friendship as you have been friends for a long time. Pursuing her for something more is another thing though and if i were you i would stop pursuing for a while and cool things way down. Do not let her play games with you this way. If i were you i would start dating others as well and keep my options open to other possibilities. Ask her why she is doing this to you and why she is lying about things. She may be seeing someone else or she could be just saying that to see how you would respond or react to it. Seems to me that she is only interested in you as just a friend and nothing more like romance or anything like that.
2007-03-08 02:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds to be trying to tell you that for now, or maybe for always, she is not interested in you in that way. She enjoys your friendship but she has decided on seeking other friendships as well. Don't give up but also do not push her into a relationship with you. Just be her friend and also maintain other friendships with other people. Years ahead her interest in you just might change for the better. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-08 01:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up if she really wanted you she'd be with you. If you want to stay friends back off give yourself some space or even find someone else. Should you do this she'll either get really jealous and say she feels the same about you or be happy for you. Either way you can't loose.
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2016-12-05 10:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by kuebler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like she's interested. Sorry.
It's not really up to her mum to decide. Just because the parents approve doesn't mean that it is what she wants. It sounds like you have been unambiguous about your feelings and I think she is just being kind saying there is someone else when actually she just isn't interested. I'd give up on it, stop pressuring her and just remain friends.
2007-03-08 01:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on her being a friend, how did her mum find out?
That would put me off if my mum was trying to encourage me to go out with a fella even if i was interested.
Please just give it time and allow the girl to make up her own mind.
2007-03-08 01:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes feeling pressure,i mean ure parents ave gave blessing,maybe she feels lik ure plannin ure future 4 the nx 20yrs lol jus go easy on her,give her abit of space,if shes THE ONE she'il *** bk to u
2007-03-08 01:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trying to be kind to you and let you know she's just not into you that way. Back off and stay friends. She'll let you know if she changes her mind
2007-03-08 01:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's to be confused about? Find somebody who like you. All I read here is you talking about what you want and her not complying with what YOU want.
Find somebody who wants you instead.
2007-03-08 01:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋