I keep dreamin about sleeping with my boyfriends friend! I don;t know what to do. I do think he is good looking, but I am in love with my boyfriend, and I would never cheat on him! Ever!
Yesterday the man i dream about said to me "i had a dream that i slept with you the other day - wierd?"
Can somebody tell me what this means?
2007-03-08 00:32:41 · 14 answers · asked by the one and only! 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
One of the most common dream themes is about sex. From a clinical perspective, dream images of sexuality are rarely, if ever, expressions of “love.” In the unconscious—the origin of all dreams—sexual images and feelings signify a need to be seen or to be noticed as a way to compensate for a deep fear of being abandoned or ignored.
2007-03-08 02:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really in love with your boy-friend? If anything makes you doubt it then perhps you should ask yourself a few questions. Most dreams can be 'left-over feelings' from the days previous events but also when asleep you can't control your thoughts so they can show themselves to you. You suppress the 'wrong' thoughts when awake but they appear when you have no control. Maybe the friend is giving off vibes that you are picking up on.
Take your time and make no serious choices until you sort your mind out. Good Luck.
2007-03-08 08:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by leximp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this an actual dream or wishful thinking? but then again dreams are just your sub conscience trying to work out the last few days events, so maybe you do really fancy him, but your denying it.
Or maybe, there is another area of your life where you feel your on the wrong path, (as represented by fancying your boyfriends mate) maybe in work or with another friend altogether? Either way, there is a decision in your life you know you need to make, but maybe are not quite up to facing the challenge as yet.
Hope that helps
2007-03-08 08:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by Christine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all know where you're going with this. Depending on your age, the situation can go many ways. If you're a high school student, a relationship now is a joke, do your b/f's friend before the opportunity goes away.
That's what you get for staying up late on the internet looking at naked men. LOL
2007-03-08 08:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Wedge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're flirting with each other, very subconsciously! Of course your conscious self would never cheat on your boyfriend, but your true self wants to jump in the sack! Be honest with your feelings. You'll be happier in the long run!
2007-03-08 08:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by peanut1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. It's just a dream!
But if as a result of your dream you find that you're spending a lot of time thinking about this guy, then you might want to figure out if you might actually have a crush on him.
2007-03-09 10:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by ErnieBert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding?
If you have a boyfriend why should you think of somebody's else.
Anyway it is just a dream. Forget it and do not tell your friend about it or else you will be in trouble.
2007-03-08 08:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Carol T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever I dream about anything, I have found that no matter what dream/topic it is about , in real life it never happens. So when I dream about flying, it never happens, when I dream about finding money, it never happenns.
Ya kinda getting my gist here? I would not worry at all about your dream.
2007-03-08 08:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mike E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes what you see in a dream can mean the opposite
It could also maybe mean your b/frenz fren's affection for you, what and how he feels for an about you.
chill
2007-03-08 10:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by Subliminus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive had dreams i slept with people i hate, so i wudnt worry too much about it
2007-03-08 08:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋