and he's this really gross punk/gothic kid. i'm a shy athlete. he won't leave me alone. what can i do without being mean or harsh (it's always during class or in the library, and avoiding him doesn't work either. he's a college student, i'm a dual enrollment student)? help....
2007-03-08 00:28:16 · 26 answers · asked by juz me, deal with it 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
does he know you are 15 and still in high school? (that sounds weird, but there are a lot of high school girls who look more mature, and often guys can't tell.) If he doesn't know tell him you are in high school and not interested. If it continues, notify your professor because then it is harassment which is against the law, and against school policy.
2007-03-08 00:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by Adorabilly 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he understands the term "15 will get you 20". you are a minor. Tell him to back off. and then tell you parents. Also make an appointment with the college councellor and dean. What he is doing is not only illegal but a form of sexual harrassment. Since you (I assume) have asked him to leave you alone. I have a 16 year old daughter and when a boy she didn't like wouldn't leave her alone I had a small and affectual chat with him. I simply stated "Since we are a military family I have a weapon on premisis, a shovel and a hole dug on 40 acres for just such occassions as unruly boys and that guaging from his current behavoir I didn't think anyone would miss him." He never bothered her again. Definitly tell your parents. And then let them decide how to deal with the boy. That is what parents are for. Especially in this situation.
2007-03-08 00:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 09:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself undesireable - get some courage and stand up for yourself even if it is uncomfortable - don't worry about hurting his feelings, you have no relationship with him and do not want to - key - make yourself undesireable - work in that you have a std from another boy - something like that. If all else fails, call campus security or work with the dean/guidance counselor at the school and arrange for an escort to and from class for a time being - he'll get the picture.
2007-03-09 10:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by yoursoftballcoach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he doesn't back off, you're going to bring your daddy or worse yet, your mother to class! Avoid him whenever possible, and don't respond at all when he talks to you. Go find other company and if necessary, report him to proper authorities. Move away from him in the library and go sit with another group. If he follows you, ask him to leave so everyone can hear you.
2007-03-08 00:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone at school that he won't leave you alone or tell him that you are going to report him to the cops if he will not stop and last but not lest kick him in the balls he'll get the massage, But use that as the last resort.
2007-03-08 00:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dallas S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police on him. Be mean and harsh. Tell your parents. Do whatever it takes to get the guy off your back.
2007-03-08 00:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that since you are only 15 your parents do not want you dating anyone who is not still in high school. This takes the pressure off of you and puts it on your parents ( who would support you on this)Tell him at this time you are not interested in dating, you are concentrating on your studies which take up most of your time.
2007-03-08 03:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he is a loser and needs to date girls his own age and kick him inthe junk. Let your father know what is going on. If he doesn't control the situation, I'll be more than happy threaten the little punk.
2007-03-08 02:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by Bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch it cause u and me both know he is too old 4 u. Just be careful because boys are a little aggressive. just tell him to leave u alone and how old u are, if he doesn't stop u HAVE to tell ur parents.
2007-03-08 01:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by Ebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋