well many a times i feel why all the people cant be sucessfull or get what they desire is why only few people are successful not all ...i mean nobody wants to fail yet only few achieve there goal...nobody plans to fail but yet most of them get it..why?????????
2007-03-08 00:27:52 · 16 answers · asked by saksham s 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It depends on what you and them think is successful. People also fail because they don't over come what is put in front of them and give up. To be successful all you have to do is be happy and achieve the goals that you think are important. Everyone is success full in life just in different areas.
2007-03-08 00:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jan R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically because no one has the paitience to persevere on. Failure comes before success. Many a time, lots of failure. Some people just get so tired of failing, they loose their paitience & give up!
Thoes who fail to plan, plan to fail - I've heard that saying so often.
Reach for the little goals, the ones you can actually reach. Take it step by step. Confidence is essencial but over-confidence is not a good thing either.
Even if he/she should fail 99times, try once more. You wouldn't regret it cause that 100th attempt would change your life forever. You would have succeeded! U'll eventually succeed if your determined about your goal. All you gotta do is work hard towards it. Just make sure, as each days goes by, your one step ahead :) by the end of the month, you'd be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel :)
2007-03-08 09:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Shobha 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think success should have different definitions for everyone. to some people getting rich is what they consider a success. being married is considered a success. getting a college degree is considered a success. nobody can tell you or anyone if he's a failure or a success. because it all depends on your objectives.
being patient and being able to handle oneself in the right way is a success. sometimes some people are successors, but they never noticed because they let others measure them as successfull or not.
2007-03-10 05:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by the elf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of ur answerers got it wrong(they are mistaken).
They gave a clue when saying "to give 101%";
So it should be obvious that we can put in 100% effort and
Never get any where.
And its a simple(and known truth by
teachers and scholars,or/and should be!) truth that we
may give 100% and the effort will kill us-this has occurred
and we should learn from this.
(and if the financial success of others bothers one so much,
then one should learn to accept and even love some better
and more attainable fruition; this beautiful world of our has
a more-or-less Infinite possibility,in this respect,too).
2007-03-08 09:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by peter m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being successful is a state of mind. It doesn't matter what you choose to do. Being successful really only means finding something you love to do, and putting your mind to doing it. You don't have to be a millionaire or even rich, to be successful. Success comes from setting a goal and completing it. You can gain success many times and from many areas of your life. Your ultimate goal should be to be happy and content, doing what you're doing! That's success!
2007-03-08 09:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Plexed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not true. The need is to look within ourselves.... First defining success - which has a different meaning for different people in different situations. Then comes your stability , perseverance becoz most people change their definition with time.... getting to know the true purpose behind all this mess is another factor. Most of us are unable to define a purpose becoz it is said to be the starting point of all achievements. The bottomline - somewhere or the other - the fault lies in our approach, our thought process.....
2007-03-08 08:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mooch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend...its all in our hands, instead of putting 100% percent on reaching the goal, try 101% and u might be successful.I'm sure those whom were successful put in more efffort that one could ever think of. "If u have the WILL ,u will have the WAY". Well.. now i'm not sure whether the saying is right! If i take the initiative 2 check it out i'm putting in more effort.But....sorry i'm kind of tired right now.Anyway hope that everyone who puts in effort are successful in their lives.
2007-03-08 09:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by FreeHuGs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because there is a limit on everyone's potential and most people would try to go beyond their potential which would normally end in failure. For those who actually set their goals within their limits usually achieve their goals.
2007-03-08 08:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Unazaki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ecause many people are programmed to fail. I have seen this many times - after the first failure in life, people tend to get stuck in that mind set and it is a difficult one from ahich to escape. It eventually becomes a vicious circle.....
2007-03-08 08:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by CLEVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many fail to plan. Someone has to collect the garbage and clean the public toilets; would you have a university or college graduate do it?
2007-03-08 08:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by CLICKHEREx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋