I don't want my husband to hurt him self if I leave how do I break it to him?

Answer 1

Say "right would everyone whose in a happy stable relationship take one step forward......hey where do think you're going?"

Answer 2

Wow, capitánfuzzfourhundredandtwenty. I would hate if my wife was about to do that. It will ALWAYS hurt saying something like that. I don´t know what to tell you. If you are worried that he will do something stupid if you dump him, you still can´t stop your life for that. I guess in that situation I would suggest making yourself a LOT less attractive to just him. I can easily give suggestions on that one lol...drink more, gain weight, put less focus on to beauty care, flirt more with everybody (don´t discriminate), start hinting about other people, tell him you love him (but you feel he is no longer the one). There are a lot of things you can do to make him not so attached. Good luck, and TRULY I hope nothing bad happens. Love and Respect.

Answer 3

There's nothing you can do to prevent him from harming himself if he decides he wants to.

There is also no easy way to break the news to someone that you are leaving the relationship. You know your husband though and we don't. You should give him the decency and respect of telling him face to face unless you believe he will harm you.

If he threatens to harm himself or to harm you, call the police. If you're working you're way up to telling him and he makes the threat, call the police. Do not abuse the justice system though. Only call for help if you honestly believe he is going to do something that they can prevent.

Answer 4

My x husband would tell me if i ever left him he would hurt himself that was 3 yrs ago and i am still hearing it even through i am divorced..They tell you that as a pity plea to stay with them although you are so miserable...If he is stupid enough to hurt himself there is nothing you can do about it..You need to think of yourself being and stop worrying about what he will do to himself....GOOD LUCK to yourself you will make the right choice just remember sometimes you need to worry bout your self being instead of someone else!

Answer 5

Gently but truthfully. If he is going to hurt himself after you leave, then it would be on him. He would threaten to do it to try to keep you there in hopes that he won't do it. That is called manipulation. I've been there. I had to leave anyway, because it was affecting my sanity, my job, and my relationship with others around me. Don't stay because he says he will hurt himself if you leave. That is just another way for an abuser to keep control.

Answer 6

i had the same problem in the end though i just had to leave there is no easy way to do this but the truth is helpful. perhaps he is making you feel sorry for him so you dont leave. You could always let him know that there are people ot there willing to help ie profesionals but you cant be that person

Answer 7

If you feel he would hurt himself if you left then there is no way to break it to him. He will either except it or hold over you head the "self hurt". The balls in your court!

Answer 8

you should not leave your husband until you have tried everything possible. marriage is a life time, not a "oh boy i don't like this anymore beung married". why did you marry him? what is it he do for you? a marriage takes work and lots of it. you got married under the eye of God, and it meant nothing to you.

Answer 9

why do you want to leave, you married him for better or worse instead of just walking away why not try to work out the problem the grass is not always greener on the other side

Answer 10

One night my dad came into my room crying, saying he wanted to divorce my mom. It came as a surprise to all of us. My dad kept on telling my dad that she was going to kill herself if he went through w/ it. My dad and us kids went to my grandparents the next day. My dad called the local athorities before we left and told them that she might do something bad, like killing herself. Turns out when the cops came to the house to check on her, she had all the guns out and ready to do it. They took her away to a Heath Institution to get evaluated. She got diagnosed w/ bi-polar disorder. shes on meds now, and is okay.

What you should do is tell him in the nicest way possible. Tell him that you DO love him. but you arent in love anymore. tell him you still want to be in his life until he wishes you to be gone. When you leave, and you still think that he might hurt himself, then call your town/city cops- tell them whats going on. Sounds crazy, but they will check up on him.