please tell me how this sounds. I am breaking up with him. does it sound okay. add or edit please.?

Question

Hiya Liam,
I think this is the best way for me to tell you this. First, I just want to thank you so much for everything nice you have ever done for me. You have and always will mean a lot to me and you have gave me so many amazing memorys that i will never forget.
Right now, I am just in a point in my life where i want to do my own thing and enyoy life on my own. I realise now that i have made so many mistakes, and understand so much why God wanted sex to be kept within marriage. None of this would have happened if we had kept to that. I made a promise with God never to do it again until I am married. I think you were so irrasponsible for not using protection and passing it to me, but i suppose it happened for a reason.
I never plan to drink alcohol, have drugs, or have sex until marriage again. I want to live my life according to his rules, becuase i know they are for own good. I know that you would never be willing to sacrifice these things too which is why i j

is why I just can not be with you. If we meant to be then I suppose that we will find each other again one day but until then please just let me go my own way and accept how I plan to live the rest of my life.
I pray that one day you will see God too and give up the lifestyle you have. You might think that drugs are important but believe there is so much more to life than what you think. I am changing my number and email address because I know it will be better not to talk for a while until things settle, otherwise it will just be too hard for the both of us. I will never forget you.


Love B

yeah im breaking up with him in email. i will get chucked across the room if i told him face to face.

he is irrisponsible. he cheated on me a year ago and did not use protection. i was rushed to the hospital with severe pains and found i had chlamydia. Which is of him becuase i have never slept with anyone before. I am scared that i am infertile becuase of him.

Answer 1

That's fine. Good luck, gal!

Answer 2

Hiya Liam,
Thank you so much for the great memories and time spent together. You mean a lot to me! However, right now in my life, I feel that its time for me to move on and do things on my own. In the past, I've made many mistakes and I now understood why God wanted sex to be kept within marriage. None of this would have happened if we had kept to that. I made a promise with God never to do it again until I am married. It was very irresponsible of you for not taking precautions. Nevertheless, I suppose things happened for a reason. It was never in my thoughts that I'll take to drinkings, drugs &/or sex before marriage. From now on I want to lead a clean life and start life anew thus the decision to leave you. If fate has it that we're destined to be together again, I shall cherished it. As for now, I ask for your understanding to let me go. Meanwhile, I pray that God will enlighten you to see things differently in life and to discard your bad habits and like me, to start life anew. Take care and good-bye!

Answer 3

I think you are unfair , god isnt around so you can blame him for you sleeping with your boyfreind , you "both" slept together , it is unfair to this liam , that you are making a decision based on your beliefs after you committed the sin , and then you are telling liam that he made the decison , when you both did , seriously the bible talks about marriage as a commitment , and if you both committed to the act , then you both are responsible , think hard about your decision , and if you do write this letter to him , then you are being pretty selfish , and will regret it later on , expect to make mistakes through life , expect to fall short of the glory of god , but most of all , look within yourself , and distribute blame.. if you do say sianarah , then say it to him , do not write a letter trying to justify to yourself that you were not to blame - you both were , so dont quit the relationship on petty reasons, look further into this , and then try and understand what is making you want to finish it , and if you do finish it , make sure you dont regret it later on , most likely , you will be in a situation like this again , or worse , be realistic in how you view this . most of all pray for direction in your decisions.
be realistic in your life as well , be wary of drugs and alcahol , and sex , and remember the morals of your parents and church , but give liam a chance because you both have eaten the cookie!

** Additional comment -
the two add on answers by the author werent there when I added my first comment , I tend to agree with the bottom comment by akishi right now with the new additional information **.

I would suggest as akishi has indicated to do whatever is possible to get rid of him , I was not aware at the time you had written the letter above , of the background information surrounded by you writing a letter in the contect of an e-mail , the person (Liam) is obviously not to be trusted in anyway , and you must go to whatever length to sever the ties surrounded by it. .. akishi thankyou for you comment - you are absolutly right!

Answer 4

I think you should check your spelling, but what you say to him is your choice. Say what you feel-none of us can write this for you.

"pureinsomniac", give it a rest. God is great and all that blah blah blah, but do NOT assume that things can be worked out. Some things cannot be, or shouldn't be. I agree that it is unfair to blame the guy for being "irresponsible", as they BOTH should have made sure to use protection, but you have to respect her decision to leave him. He WAS, however, irresponsible by sleeping with someone else and giving her an STD. Is it not God who says not to judge others? Do not presume to label her selfish or cruel-you don't know her. Reguardless of her beliefs, this is about her decision, not about God. (And it's Sayonara, as I AM studying Japanese. If you can't spell it, don't use it. They make spell check so easy, too...and it's a violation of the Yahoo! Answers ToS not to use it to make your posts as readable as possible.)

Listen, kid. I think you've made a good decision. Acohol, drugs, and sex can ruin a person's life, and it's already hurt yours. If you want to tell him by email, then go for it. (from what you said, he sounds like a violent person) I can understand the fear of trying to tell someone like that goodbye to their face. This sounds like the safest way to me. Forget blaming him, though...cause in the end, what does it matter who's fault it is? What's done is done. Best of luck to you, though!

Answer 5

first of all,it takes two to tango so why did'nt you MAKE him wear a condom?If he was'nt going to use protection, why risk getting infected and sleep with him?We all make mistakes in our lives and believe me,not all men are the same.You will find someone that will love and respect you.There's nothing wrong with wanting a little "you" time and instead of messing this guy around,you're doing the honorable thing and ending the relationship.

I know it can be an upsetting time for both of you.Everything else in the letter is fine so i woul'nt change it.I hope he respects your decision and leaves you be.

Answer 6

Sounds great to me, and I am very proud of you for wanting to get away from the alcohol durgs you will be a better person for it good luck and hang on to God he will help

Answer 7

if he means so much to you he at least deserves it said to his face. to me a letter is a cop out. you cant write a letter and then just disappear from his life think of how you would feel it being done to you. good luck and to him as well

Answer 8

Firstly, I just want to thank you.....
amazing memories....
I am just at a point in my life...
so irresponsible...
have sex again until marriage.
If it was meant to be...

p.s. You have courage. Good luck.

Answer 9

Sounds good..but i hope you are not planning to break up with him through email..thats just harsh.

Answer 10

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